I don't think that makes you a bi. I believe you would have to be attracted to other guys aside from women in order to be a bi, not just to one guy. What happened with your mate may have been pure curiosity for all you know...

Were you a top or bottom? Bottom then definately...But if you took all the pleasure and was a top...Your probably just openminded

It's so funny when straight people pretend to know about this stuff...

Hunny im a lesbian married to a lesbian...We have a son together...Will be married for 2 years in july...And before you say it ain't legal im in canada sweety

Last time I checked lesbians were women.

And what is that supposed to mean?

Well, I am calling myself "bi" only because if I say "lesbian" then I would be closing doors that I just don't want to slam shut just yet.

Don't get me wrong. I am 99% sure that I only like women but then there is that 1% of the time that I see a guy walking down the street or on tv and go, "hey, he is kinda hot!". I got a real kick in the pants (no pun intended) when I turned on food network and saw the host of "ham on the street". Now that guy is hottttt!

Why should we all decide one way or another? I mean, in our lives as americans, we normally try to stop labels... Stop stereotypes...Exc. Exc.Exc.

Why do you feel the need to slap a label on your forehead?

Every gay, straight, or lesbian person that has decided to super glue that label to their heads has had a fantasy about the opposite sex that they are attracted to.

I have decided that there is no point to labels.

It is no one's business who I am into unless I am hitting on them.

It is no one's concern but my own.

If asked outright then I say I am bi because explaining the details would take hours! (well, if it is just someone at a bar then I am a lesbian but if it is an s&m thing then I am bi, but when it comes to that guy on food network then i'm straight...what???)

labels are stupid because it sets up a wall around you. Hell, in the us if you even say your political orientation it makes people judge you and separates you from 50% of people!

Tell people what they want to hear but don't do anything that goes against your morals.

That is what I have learned after all these years of pondering! Good luck!

Ok I am a married woman and I have several ? I have just resentaly descovered that I am bie well I mean I am finally abel to deal with it and talk about it so now I have all kinds of questions to ask I am so curious about everything can anyone help me. I want to make sure someone will talk to me bfore I start splaterring all my questions...

Ok in my opioun I think that if you are atrractied to both male and female and could be with both then you are bie if not then you are either gay or lesbian which I am sorry I hate being labeled I am my own person with my own feelings and I am sick of people saying oh there is that gay guy or that lesbian.. I guess we should just start saying oh there is that lyier or that homicide sorry that I feel this way I am proud of my sexuallity

This is in response to th last reply.
When I came to terms with mabe being gay or bye,it was the labels that terrified me,but I it takes courage to stand up and be who you are, and the more I am learning about this is alot of people have had or have feelings for the same sex,and when we stand up and say ok yes I do it can pathe the way for it becomming more acceptable. A line from my fav poem(our deepest fear,marriane willimson) as we are librated from our own fear our presence automatically librates others!!!!!!!!!!!
All the very best of luck to you all on your journeys!!!
Love and light shelly

Ty I just dont know how to tell our familys my husband is like really happy and all well iguess you all get the drift there. N-e way I am so scared and this is the hardest battle that I have ever faught.... I really need advice deeply