How Do You Know If You Are Bisexual??? Posted: 08-27-05 02:34am
Hi, im a new guy
up untill recently I thought I was strait
but when I stayed the nite at a mates
place who I thought was strait told me he
was in fact gay it really turned me on and
we ended up sleeping together duz that
make me bi?
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KellyR
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Aug 2005 Posts: 90
Posted: 09-04-05 06:40am
I don't think that makes you a bi. I
believe you would have to be attracted to
other guys aside from women in order to be
a bi, not just to one guy. What happened
with your mate may have been pure
curiosity for all you know...
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alexsmom
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Joined: 24 Apr 2006 Posts: 7 Location: Sault Ste. Marie
Posted: 04-24-06 20:17pm
Were you a top or bottom? Bottom then
definately...But if you took all the
pleasure and was a top...Your probably
just openminded
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oneofthesun
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Joined: 13 Mar 2006 Posts: 30 Location: Ontario Canada
Posted: 04-26-06 18:42pm
It's so funny when straight people pretend
to know about this stuff...
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alexsmom
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Joined: 24 Apr 2006 Posts: 7 Location: Sault Ste. Marie
Posted: 04-26-06 21:44pm
Hunny im a lesbian married to a
lesbian...We have a son together...Will be
married for 2 years in july...And before
you say it ain't legal im in canada sweety
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oneofthesun
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Joined: 13 Mar 2006 Posts: 30 Location: Ontario Canada
Posted: 04-27-06 19:13pm
Last time I checked lesbians were women.
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alexsmom
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Joined: 24 Apr 2006 Posts: 7 Location: Sault Ste. Marie
Posted: 04-28-06 09:08am
And what is that supposed to mean?
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AvatarOfUrDreams
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Joined: 10 May 2006 Posts: 67 Location: Chicago
Posted: 05-17-06 10:49am
Well, I am calling myself "bi" only
because if I say "lesbian" then I would be
closing doors that I just don't want to
slam shut just yet.
Don't get me wrong. I am 99% sure that I
only like women but then there is that 1%
of the time that I see a guy walking down
the street or on tv and go, "hey, he is
kinda hot!". I got a real kick in the
pants (no pun intended) when I turned on
food network and saw the host of "ham on
the street". Now that guy is hottttt!
Why should we all decide one way or
another? I mean, in our lives as
americans, we normally try to stop
labels... Stop stereotypes...Exc.
Exc.Exc.
Why do you feel the need to slap a label
on your forehead?
Every gay, straight, or lesbian person
that has decided to super glue that label
to their heads has had a fantasy about the
opposite sex that they are attracted to.
I have decided that there is no point to
labels.
It is no one's business who I am into
unless I am hitting on them.
It is no one's concern but my own.
If asked outright then I say I am bi
because explaining the details would take
hours! (well, if it is just someone at a
bar then I am a lesbian but if it is an
s&m thing then I am bi, but when it
comes to that guy on food network then i'm
straight...what???)
labels are stupid because it sets up a
wall around you. Hell, in the us if you
even say your political orientation it
makes people judge you and separates you
from 50% of people!
Tell people what they want to hear but
don't do anything that goes against your
morals.
That is what I have learned after all
these years of pondering! Good luck!
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brionnas mama
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jun 2006 Posts: 14 Location: USA
??????????? Posted: 06-11-06 19:13pm
Ok I am a married woman and I have several
? I have just resentaly descovered that I
am bie well I mean I am finally abel to
deal with it and talk about it so now I
have all kinds of questions to ask I am so
curious about everything can anyone help
me. I want to make sure someone will talk
to me bfore I start splaterring all my
questions...
Ok in my opioun I think that if you are
atrractied to both male and female and
could be with both then you are bie if not
then you are either gay or lesbian which I
am sorry I hate being labeled I am my own
person with my own feelings and I am sick
of people saying oh there is that gay guy
or that lesbian.. I guess we should just
start saying oh there is that lyier or
that homicide sorry that I feel this way I
am proud of my sexuallity
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shelly27
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Nov 2005 Posts: 9
Thankyou So Much!!! Posted: 06-13-06 20:17pm
This is in response to th last reply.
When I came to terms with mabe being gay
or bye,it was the labels that terrified
me,but I it takes courage to stand up and
be who you are, and the more I am learning
about this is alot of people have had or
have feelings for the same sex,and when we
stand up and say ok yes I do it can pathe
the way for it becomming more acceptable.
A line from my fav poem(our deepest
fear,marriane willimson) as we are
librated from our own fear our presence
automatically librates others!!!!!!!!!!!
All the very best of luck to you all on
your journeys!!!
Love and light shelly
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brionnas mama
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jun 2006 Posts: 14 Location: USA
Posted: 06-14-06 09:52am
Ty I just dont know how to tell our
familys my husband is like really happy
and all well iguess you all get the drift
there. N-e way I am so scared and this is
the hardest battle that I have ever
faught.... I really need advice deeply
