Well clitoris plays a major role in getting an orgasm. So either play with yourself during sex, or have your partner play.
Or see if you can find a position where he'd be rubbing your clitoris just by moving.

Ive tried both of those suggestions, but it still doesnt work. The only time ive ever gotten an orgasm is if I was on top, by the time I get one I am so worn out...Now I wear out before I can orgasm....Any other positions?

Ack! That doesn't sound nice at all!
Are you guys having a nice long foreplay? Cause you know the female orgasm is also very emotionl - more than it is psysical.

A foreplay can start in the morning, saying nice things to each other. Eating breakfast together. Not stressing around.
Good music, and maybe a home candle light dinner? ;)

you have to try an not think about the orgasm, don't try hard cause then you will put your attention in the wrong places, guaranteeing you failure! Think positive and sexy! 8)

i don't know about positions tho...

Since you can only have an orgasm when you are on top, you are probably into deeper penetration. In order to achieve deeper penetration you could try missionary, however keep your legs up near your chest, or even over his shoulders. The higher you can get your legs, the deeper he will be able to get, allowing you to have an orgasm.

Thanks for the advice ill give it a try and if it doesnt work ill be back!!!

Nope....No sucess. Im starting to wonder if I am still even interested in this any more. Thanks for your help....

Hey there mandalee,

your'e not alone, I have been sexually active for 10 years now and i have never had an orgasm with my partner ever.... I have had a few orgasms whilst masturbating "clitoral" but never had one while having sex.

Hey there mandalee,

your'e not alone, I have been sexually active for 10 years now and i have never had an orgasm with my partner ever.... I have had a few orgasms whilst masturbating "clitoral" but never had one while having sex.

i read that only 30% of woman get full orgasm so don't despair. i am paitently waiting for the day i will have a full blown out orgasm.

I have never had an orgasm, ever! not with oral or during sex. My partner and I have tried different positions with both of these, but I still cant. Help?

well theres a toy u can buy its a little bunny witha remote. the dude can use it on you while you doing it or u can use it yourself. im kinda in the same situation? my partner i been with for 7 years, he just wants to slap on the lubracant and go! it sux!