It sounds like endo symptoms you have-it dosent help when you are told different things-as you will end up going round the bend. I was first diagnosed with endo-i had-liver like clots/brown/black blood at the beginning and end of my period. Pain was nearly everyday especially around ovulation. Dull,dragging ache. Anyway the second lap I had was to remove the endo but guess what? There wasnt any and they discharged me-i was mortified-as far as I was concerned I was still living with this problem.
After yrs of depression because noone understood me I decided to have a hysterectomy-full abdominal 3 wks ago and they found adhesion on my ovary that was heavily embedded to my bowel.
The question they cant answer me is why did they not notice this before?
Have you tried hormonal treatment-as demetriose worked for me but I could only stay on it for 6 mths-i was totally pain free.That way they knew for certain that the pain was gynacological as they thought I had irritible bowel??!!
There is hope besides surgery if you have endo,they have lots of treatments if you can tolerate them.
Wish you all the best of luck. People dont understand what pain you are in unless they have had it.