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lilwaynegrezky99

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Masturbating With Friends
Posted: 08-24-05 23:50pm

I have a question.. Me and my best friend usually have sleep overs and watch porn 2gether... We tell each other we have boners and showed each other our penises becuase we are concerned. We have masturbated togehter many times.. One time each other.. Do most straight people do this?
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CasterShells

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Posted: 08-25-05 00:03am

My friends and I do the same thing, but never each other. I think watching porn and telling/showing each other is a natural guy thing that most people do.
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sheepo

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Posted: 08-25-05 20:12pm

I've never done it with my friends...Its something that onlly me and my gf need to see. And I dont think msot straight guys let other guys whack them off. But if your comfortable with it then thats ok I guess. Dont be afraid to be gay though.
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cd998776

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Posted: 08-28-05 14:47pm

Actually, it is a lot more common than you would think, and it's perfectly normal for guys to go through a "curiosity" state.
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emtbass

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Posted: 09-02-05 21:42pm

What is the age of this curiosity stage. I know there is no set age, but is it normal for this to happen in the late teens... Even in the early to mid twentys?
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Posted: 09-03-05 02:31am

I tried once with a friend (but each his tool ! No eatch-other's touching) and it went ok. Pretty fun actually, crazy laughs. But yeah I still feel more confortable when doing this alone.

Lol i'd feel really embarrased if I find out my friend actually did this because he had a crush on me or something :mrgreen:
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cd998776

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Posted: 09-05-05 12:49pm

emtbass wrote:
what is the age of this curiosity stage. I know there is no set age, but is it normal for this to happen in the late teens... Even in the early to mid twentys?

usually between 14 and 24 as far as I know.
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Justin_Toronto

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Posted: 09-05-05 13:03pm

This does not determine whether you are gay, or straight. It does say something about your curiosity and open mindedness. I know straight guys who have done similar. Same thing with girls.

Don't worry about it, but be open to the idea that you might have a preference for homosexuality.

Also, this stage of curiosity does not have any set boundaries. For some it can be as early as 16, for others it can be as late as 40. Everyone doesn't go through it, but many do. Both male and female.
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Posted: 09-05-05 15:30pm

justin_toronto wrote:
this does not determine whether you are gay, or straight. It does say something about your curiosity and open mindedness. I know straight guys who have done similar. Same thing with girls.


Don't worry about it, but be open to the idea that you might have a preference for homosexuality.


Also, this stage of curiosity does not have any set boundaries. For some it can be as early as 16, for others it can be as late as 40. Everyone doesn't go through it, but many do. Both male and female.

very true.
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jamesone

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Posted: 09-08-05 12:55pm

I am 34 and I have been married for 14 years. I used to do this with some friends and I still have the desire to do it with them now. I am very happily married and don't consider myself gay at all. Maybe i'm just weird. With your friend, iis it ever more than just jacking?
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Galodis

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Posted: 09-13-05 18:52pm

I can truthfuly say I would probly throwup if I jacked my friend off. I watch porn lots with my friends yea we probly get woods all the time but thats as far as it goes. But everyones different dont think ur an outcast if u do so.
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ProZackMI

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Re: Masturbating With Friends
Posted: 09-14-05 09:14am

lilwaynegrezky99 wrote:
i have a question.. Me and my best friend usually have sleep overs and watch porn 2gether... We tell each other we have boners and showed each other our penises becuase we are concerned. We have masturbated togehter many times.. One time each other.. Do most straight people do this?


it's no big deal. Relax and enjoy it.
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BarbaraJeanne

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Masturbating one another
Posted: 02-15-08 04:08am

Very
Happy Masturbating is a perfectly natural thing for males. Even for females. My lifelong dream has been to masurbate another guy and he me. It just seems to add another dimension to the excitement of masturbating. I do not in any way believe for one second that masturbating one another is a gay act rather a higher level of masturbating.
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Re: Masturbating one another
Posted: 02-15-08 13:38pm

BarbaraJeanne wrote:
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Happy Masturbating is a perfectly natural thing for males. Even for females. My lifelong dream has been to masurbate another guy and he me. It just seems to add another dimension to the excitement of masturbating. I do not in any way believe for one second that masturbating one another is a gay act rather a higher level of masturbating.

That's actually a very normal aspect of sexual life and is often a precursor to actual sex. I assume you're not sexually active yet.
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Mikolas

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Posted: 02-17-08 03:08am

I don't think most straight men do that, though I'm sure there are a lot more out there who do it then the percentage expected. I heard of a few guy friends who do mutual masturbation, as well as gangbang and the like. These guys are probably very comfortable with their sexuality.

I'm not sure whether to count masturbating each other (among the same sex), is considered a homosexual act though. That's hard to define.
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MiseEire

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Posted: 02-17-08 16:04pm

It's not something that I'd be comfortable with personally. If it's each to their own, it's not a gay act in itself but I couldn't see myself being aroused without a woman actually being there. Perhaps it borders on a level of bi-curiosity.
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Posted: 02-17-08 20:19pm

There's porn involved so there are "women" involved.
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MiseEire

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Posted: 02-19-08 13:14pm

I guess so. Still, it seems peculiar. Generally masturbation is either personal or an experience shared with a sexual partner.
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Posted: 02-19-08 13:21pm

As a female, i find this fascinating, maybe just a guy thing, I would never be able to do this in front of another female friend, or even male friend without it being a sexual thing? not just a hangout thing. Yet I hold no judgements
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Posted: 02-19-08 18:38pm

MiseEire wrote:
I guess so. Still, it seems peculiar. Generally masturbation is either personal or an experience shared with a sexual partner.

In your opinion - which doesn't make you wrong, but again, this seems to be a fairly common occurance.
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