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lilwaynegrezky99
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Masturbating With Friends
Posted: 08-24-05 23:50pm
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I have a question.. Me and my best friend
usually have sleep overs and watch porn
2gether... We tell each other we have
boners and showed each other our penises
becuase we are concerned. We have
masturbated togehter many times.. One
time each other.. Do most straight people
do this?
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CasterShells
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Posted: 08-25-05 00:03am
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My friends and I do the same thing, but
never each other. I think watching porn
and telling/showing each other is a
natural guy thing that most people do.
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sheepo
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Posted: 08-25-05 20:12pm
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I've never done it with my friends...Its
something that onlly me and my gf need to
see. And I dont think msot straight guys
let other guys whack them off. But if
your comfortable with it then thats ok I
guess. Dont be afraid to be gay though.
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cd998776
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Posted: 08-28-05 14:47pm
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Actually, it is a lot more common than you
would think, and it's perfectly normal for
guys to go through a "curiosity" state.
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emtbass
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Posted: 09-02-05 21:42pm
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What is the age of this curiosity stage.
I know there is no set age, but is it
normal for this to happen in the late
teens... Even in the early to mid
twentys?
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Posted: 09-03-05 02:31am
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I tried once with a friend (but each his
tool ! No eatch-other's touching) and it
went ok. Pretty fun actually, crazy
laughs. But yeah I still feel more
confortable when doing this alone.
Lol i'd feel really embarrased if I find
out my friend actually did this because he
had a crush on me or something :mrgreen:
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cd998776
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Posted: 09-05-05 12:49pm
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| emtbass
wrote: | | what is the age of this
curiosity stage. I know there is no set
age, but is it normal for this to happen
in the late teens... Even in the early
to mid
twentys? |
usually between 14 and 24 as far as I
know.
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Justin_Toronto
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Posted: 09-05-05 13:03pm
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This does not determine whether you are
gay, or straight. It does say something
about your curiosity and open mindedness.
I know straight guys who have done
similar. Same thing with girls.
Don't worry about it, but be open to the
idea that you might have a preference for
homosexuality.
Also, this stage of curiosity does not
have any set boundaries. For some it can
be as early as 16, for others it can be as
late as 40. Everyone doesn't go through
it, but many do. Both male and female.
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cd998776
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Posted: 09-05-05 15:30pm
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| justin_toronto
wrote: | this does not determine
whether you are gay, or straight. It
does say something about your curiosity
and open mindedness. I know straight
guys who have done similar. Same thing
with girls.
Don't worry about it, but be open to the
idea that you might have a preference for
homosexuality.
Also, this stage of curiosity does not
have any set boundaries. For some it
can be as early as 16, for others it can
be as late as 40. Everyone doesn't go
through it, but many do. Both male and
female. |
very true.
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jamesone
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Posted: 09-08-05 12:55pm
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I am 34 and I have been married for 14
years. I used to do this with some
friends and I still have the desire to do
it with them now. I am very happily
married and don't consider myself gay at
all. Maybe i'm just weird. With your
friend, iis it ever more than just
jacking?
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Galodis
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Posted: 09-13-05 18:52pm
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I can truthfuly say I would probly throwup
if I jacked my friend off. I watch porn
lots with my friends yea we probly get
woods all the time but thats as far as it
goes. But everyones different dont think
ur an outcast if u do so.
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ProZackMI
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Re: Masturbating With Friends
Posted: 09-14-05 09:14am
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| lilwaynegrezky99
wrote: | | i have a question.. Me and
my best friend usually have sleep overs
and watch porn 2gether... We tell each
other we have boners and showed each other
our penises becuase we are concerned. We
have masturbated togehter many times..
One time each other.. Do most straight
people do
this? |
it's no big deal. Relax and enjoy it.
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BarbaraJeanne
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Masturbating one another
Posted: 02-15-08 04:08am
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 Masturbating
is a perfectly natural thing for males.
Even for females. My lifelong dream has
been to masurbate another guy and he me.
It just seems to add another dimension to
the excitement of masturbating. I do not
in any way believe for one second that
masturbating one another is a gay act
rather a higher level of masturbating.
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Tylanas
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Re: Masturbating one another
Posted: 02-15-08 13:38pm
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| BarbaraJeanne
wrote: | | Masturbating
is a perfectly natural thing for males.
Even for females. My lifelong dream has
been to masurbate another guy and he me.
It just seems to add another dimension to
the excitement of masturbating. I do not
in any way believe for one second that
masturbating one another is a gay act
rather a higher level of
masturbating. |
That's actually a very normal aspect of
sexual life and is often a precursor to
actual sex. I assume you're not sexually
active yet.
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Mikolas
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Posted: 02-17-08 03:08am
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I don't think most straight men do that,
though I'm sure there are a lot more out
there who do it then the percentage
expected. I heard of a few guy friends who
do mutual masturbation, as well as
gangbang and the like. These guys are
probably very comfortable with their
sexuality.
I'm not sure whether to count masturbating
each other (among the same sex), is
considered a homosexual act though. That's
hard to define.
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MiseEire
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Posted: 02-17-08 16:04pm
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It's not something that I'd be comfortable
with personally. If it's each to their
own, it's not a gay act in itself but I
couldn't see myself being aroused without
a woman actually being there. Perhaps it
borders on a level of bi-curiosity.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 02-17-08 20:19pm
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There's porn involved so there are "women"
involved.
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MiseEire
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Posted: 02-19-08 13:14pm
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I guess so. Still, it seems peculiar.
Generally masturbation is either personal
or an experience shared with a sexual
partner.
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Posted: 02-19-08 13:21pm
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As a female, i find this fascinating,
maybe just a guy thing, I would never be
able to do this in front of another female
friend, or even male friend without it
being a sexual thing? not just a hangout
thing. Yet I hold no judgements
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Posted: 02-19-08 18:38pm
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| MiseEire
wrote: | | I guess so. Still, it seems
peculiar. Generally masturbation is either
personal or an experience shared with a
sexual
partner. |
In your opinion - which doesn't make you
wrong, but again, this seems to be a
fairly common occurance.
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