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Whos Wrong???

Ok my husband plays poker on somr free website and they all talk to each other well he has been talking to this one girl for a couple months and I dont think the way they talk to each other is right for a married man, she sent him a porn clip the other day she found online, and they call each other sweety and crap like that and I told him it is wrong and that it bothers me and he says they are just friends, she does not even live in the us but it still angers me off, he thinks im being irrational and he just stormed out of here, he says she is a nobody but when I asked him to back off of it he flipped?????????? Im so crushed right now I just want to cry, do you guys think im wrong????? Im worried if he does this he could do worse things?? Help please
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replied August 24th, 2005
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Hunnie I dont think your wrong but thats my opinion...I didnt like it when my sons father use to call other gurls sweety or hunnie...But they lived where we are...He called me irrational n everything but its not like we wanna think in a bad/worried way its just that by them callen another female hunnie,sweety,etc offends us n I knew it made me insurcure...But idk hun I dont think your wrong for asken him to back down at all...If I were u id be in the same boat =-)
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replied August 25th, 2005
I agree, I would be pissed if my husband was doing that. Tell him you feel that it is some kind of emotional cheating and it isn't fair. Ask him how he would feel if you were doing the same with a man online. Don't yell or anything, just approach him exposing your sad feelings. If he sees how much it hurts you he may think about what he is doing. If he doesn't listen and continues this "relationship" I would keep track of it for a little while. If you feel he has the potential to cheat or something, I would re-examine your marrige, seek marraige counsuling. Good luck and keep your chin up, you don't deserve this kind of treatment.
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replied August 25th, 2005
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Thank you both so much, your kind words made me feel better :)
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replied August 26th, 2005
Set Him Straight!
It is emotional cheating, and it is wrong!!!
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