|i made a horriable mistake with the pressure of my boyfriend I had an abortion january of 95. A year after we married.. I suffered a misscarage and felt it was my fault for what I had done.. I slipped into a depression till I got pregnant a few months later... I had a beautiful baby girl in april of 97 then a cutiepie boy in oct 98.. I was overjoyed with my two children but never forgave my husband for what he pushed me to do.. Our marraige lasted only on paper later. I married him because I did love him but never forgave him for that and many other rotten things he did during the marriage.. I divorced him and started dating a wonderful man I have known for years..He loves my kids as if they where his own.. We are bestfriends and happily married. Now we are trying to have a child together.. But my hurt from the past of what I did still haunts me. I have nightmares and nightsweats.. Trying to conceive again has brought all my old upset up that I wish would just go away and leave me alone.. .Melissa|
|"actually, she needs to forgive herself"
it is only through the forgivness of god that we can forgive ourselves - of course you wouldnt understand that!
"have you tried talking to a psychologist? I believe therapy would help you."
go to the one who heals without compensation, only he can help you.
|"i don't know you, but you have to realize that not everybody shares your believes, whatever they are"
i do realize that not everyone believes they way I do, but you in turn have to realize that what I said is the truth.
"everyone has his/her way of finding peace and who are you to dispute that? You have no right to do that."
if you understood what peace is you would not say that, but since you do not know christ you do not know peace. The only way of finding peace is through the prince of everlasting peace. I do not dispute that people are searching for a way to find peace in a way that they may describe as "their own way" but since I have found peace, true peace, I have every right and every duty to share with them the truth of where true peace is.
If they reject my witness to true peace that is upto them.
I do not force them to believe in christ, I only assure them they will find true peace in christ and nowhere else.
Oh and btw, I wasnt disrespecting your opinion, your advice or your heartfelt intentions, I wasnt meaning to be mean, I appologise sincearly if it came across that way. I only wished to point out the love, mercy, forgivness and healing of christ jesus.