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Q: Think Before You Speak

asked by: TheGoodStuff89 on August 23rd, 2005

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Dalicialynn
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location: missouri
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Posted: 08-04-05 10:42pm

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when did I say I was smarter than everyone else?

And yes I am 16 and going to be a teen mom, I know from experience that you need to be careful, you stupid b*tch.

I'm not jumping on these girl's back for nothing you person, im going through it, trying to prevent what happend to me.

And even though it's none of your business.

I can afford a child, I have my own car and my license and am taking ged classes, i'm a few teen mom's that actually try. My kid isn't going to end up in some foster home and my parents are going to be raising it. You have to give up everything to raise a child, i'm one of the few people that actually know and realize this, if you want to try to make a point, go to the topics to where girls are trying to get pregnant.

I might be only 16, but at least I was responsible enough to use protection, I used my head. And even though I used protection, look what happend? Even though i'll love my child with everything I have, I still got sh*t on.

I'm going to be a teen mom, I have a job and I make great money, i'll be able to afford a child when I can no longer work, i'll have my ged which is as good as a highschool diploma, I have a car and dont rely on people to do the work for me. I'd say i'll be one hell of a parent.

I'm not judging anyone or trying to jump on anybody's back to diss them, i'm telling them to simply not do something if you havent had experience in it, especially if your not responsible enough to use protection, if girls were more careful, there wouldnt be posts like this, but they brought it upon themselves and as I said, i'm going through it which gives me a right to pass out useful advice.
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it seems to me that some of these people on here only tell the negative parts of being a mother.They forget to include the moments you have with your child that can't be compared to any other feeling.The first time hearing your babies heartbeat and knowing that you can give life to something as miraculous as a human-being who will love you no matter what, beats having to pay for the expenses of a child and devoting your life to them.The girl above me states that "if your not responsible enough to use protection then dont have sex." but the funny thing about this is that she too is in this position, she's 16 and about to be a teen mom?.. Im 15 and about to be a mommy and I sure as hell didnt want somebody preaching to me.Especially coming from a hypocrit.Think before you speak. I know that I made a decision that will affect me 4 the rest of my life but I have enough guts to stand up and say that nothing negative comes along with being a mother.I am a junior in highschool and yes I do plan on finishing highschool and attending the university of tennessee and becoming a pediatrician.So before anyone else wants to post something along these lines "i can afford a child, I have my own car and my license and am taking ged classes, i'm a few teen mom's that actually try. My kid isn't going to end up in some foster home and my parents are going to be raising it. You have to give up everything to raise a child, i'm one of the few people that actually know and realize this, if you want to try to make a point, go to the topics to where girls are trying to get pregnant." please consider your situation and the situation of others.

Replies(39)

DaliciaLynn

replied on August 23rd, 2005

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People are different and have different opinions, if you dont like my posts, dont read them.

Simple.

TheGoodStuff89

replied on August 23rd, 2005

Experienced User

Did I ever use the statement "i dont like your posts".. Im telling you my point of view on how much of a hypocrit you sound like in your posts. And again.. Think before you speak sweetheart

sxcgirl_me

replied on August 24th, 2005

Experienced User

This girl has a really really bad attitude.

You know you treat these girls like they are a piece of caca and you can just pick on them for your entertainment.
But guess what, just like the both of us, they have feelings as well.

These girls are scared and confused and are coming to this group for advice and support, not to get their heads bitten off.

Are you even pregnant, or do you just come here looking for a good time.

Get a life girls and act your age.

DaliciaLynn

replied on August 24th, 2005

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I turned 4 months pregnant yesterday.

I'm sorry if I come off as a b*tch but I honestly don't try to be. I think my way of making things clear, are giving an attitude to you.

People need to start using their common sense, asking if they're pregnant is one thing, but wanting to get pregnant at 13 or 15 is ridiculous.

I just turned 17 and I can't even imagine how hard it's going to be, I believe and don't believe in so many things, but still, I know it's going to be hard, it's hard to explain it to people because they'll never understand until it's happend, including myself. Even though I have a niece, it's not the same. When I get aggrivated with her, I can always give her to my sister or my mom. I can't do that when I have a child of my own.

I'm not going to argue with anyone like I have been, because it's obvious no one listens, and that's sad because when they do listen, it will be too late.

sxcgirl_me

replied on August 24th, 2005

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Yea ok, there is nothing wrong with you giving advice. Just do it nicely, not in the harsh blunt way you do it.

These 13 - 15 year old girls just dont realise what they want yet and sooner or later when they are older they will know they made a mistake by thinking that.

And you should never teach your child to hate, you should teach your child the value of life and the value of living, not how not to be a prostitute who gets pregnant at 13.

What would you do if your child accidentally got pregnant at 13?
Would you boot her out onto the streets, no I dont think you would, would you?

Just have a little more compassion for these girls ok?

woried_friend

replied on August 24th, 2005

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Wow

Ok look 13 is a big age so I 14 it is a age of experimenting and knowing and learning what it is like to become a woman so the girls who get pregnantat 13 and 14 some of the girls it isnt their fault if anyone is nasty it is them nasty chicks on maury

sxcgirl_me

replied on August 25th, 2005

Experienced User

How old are you?

13 is not a big age.

It is in a way but not for getting pregnant!!! Are you out of your mind.
No maybe it isn't their faults all the time, but at 13 a lot of 13 year olds aren't too well educated on the dangers of sex.

I wasn't educated until high school when I was about 15,

i lost my virginity when I was about 14 and I tell you, I am so glad I didnt have my period back then because I didnt know that much about sex and did it unprotected which was silly.

At 13 you are still a child going out with friends and stuff.

DaliciaLynn

replied on August 25th, 2005

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My child won't get pregnant by "accident" at 13 because accidents shouldn't happen, honestly. If you think your responsible enough to be having sex, then you need to be responsible enough to use condoms.

However, I have nothing to worry about because i'm having a boy.

TheGoodStuff89

replied on August 25th, 2005

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Re: ....

dalicialynn wrote:

my child won't get pregnant by "accident" at 13 because accidents shouldn't happen, honestly. If you think your responsible enough to be having sex, then you need to be responsible enough to use condoms.

However, I have nothing to worry about because i'm having a boy.

did you use a condom along with your birth control?What were those words the doctor spoke when he prescribed you birth control-"birth control is not 100% effective,you still have a chance of becoming pregnant." now sweetheart you werent doing everything in your power to not become pregnant. It's called abstinence, the only sure way of not getting pregnant.You keep putting all these girls down because they didnt use protection, it was there choice to not use protection and for whatever reason is none of your business.Pregnancy is pregnancy, no matter how you got here. And you say you have nothing to worry about because your having a boy.. Haha the only thing you dont have to worry about is your daughter getting pregnant, you only thing you have to worry about your son getting someone else's daughter pregnant.

sxcgirl_me

replied on August 25th, 2005

Experienced User

And your saying that accidents wont happen?

What are going to do? Chaperone your kid in the bedroom? :)

i'd like to see that.

No matter how much you try to teach your kid about unprotected sex, it wont matter because in the end your child will either take your advice, or leave it and you wont be able to do anything about it!!!!

DaliciaLynn

replied on August 25th, 2005

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Getting pregnant is never an accident, you either do it on purpose or it happens for a reason.

And honestly, the doctor never told me that there's a possibility I could still get pregnant, he told me it won't protect me from aids and std's which I understood. People get on birth control for it being a comfort to them knowing they couldnt get pregnant, it usually not works for the simple fact that your not using it correctly.

I was on brith control for 6 months before I got pregnant. Explain that one to me?

If my son wants to go and stick his penis in things then more power to him, but guys are usually more responsible when it comes to the whole pregnancy thing. (from the people I know personally) if he knocks a girl up, it's his choice by all means. He's his own person and can make his own decisions, but i'll personally kick his butt if he doesn't take responsibility.

You play you pay!

sxcgirl_me

replied on August 25th, 2005

Experienced User

On bc for 6 months?

Haha, do you know what it takes for a girl to get pregnant without brith control?
Usually a lot longer than that, so by the sounds of it, you weren't using it properly, and whose fault is that?

You come here preaching about these girls stupidity, why not take a look at your own before you judge other people.

You are not better than the other girls here just because you tried to prevent it.

Did you use a condom, im betting 10 bucks that you didn't.
If you were really that scared about getting pregnant you would have used that on top of bc.

DaliciaLynn

replied on August 26th, 2005

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Actually, it depends how the girl's body works. It doesnt take forever every time.

Don't you watch maury? Look at all the girls that had one night stands with a boy and got pregnant. It only takes one time, and as I said, it all depends how your body works.

I did use it properly, i'm positive of that. You're not the person to tell me how I used it, and how I didn't.

Yes, i'm such an immature stupid pregnant evil b*tch.

Now maybe you can get that out of your head and quit b*tching. Who cares? I don't. Lol.

sxcgirl_me

replied on August 26th, 2005

Experienced User

Hey look love, I aint the one health forum, you come her being an ignorant cow and caca all over these people and then turn around and say that im the one health forum? How does work.

And I bet you that im just saying what all these girls are thinking of you anyway.

Haha for a 17 year old you sure act like a child.

DaliciaLynn

replied on August 26th, 2005

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Why would I care what a bunch of girls on the internet think about me? Give me 1 good reason.

This forum is full of 12 year olds wanting to get pregnant, do you think I care what they would think of me? Ohh boo hoo i'm an immature 17 year old thats pregnant. Im going to be a horrible mother and beat my child.

I'm crying, honest.

Sorry I don't care as much as you wanted me too, but obviously, i'm not getting my panties in a bunch just because of an opinion I didn't agree with.

If anyone is b*tching, it's you. You're the one complaining about my posts.

Lol.

sxcgirl_me

replied on August 26th, 2005

Experienced User

Well obviously your panties are up in bunch.
Other wise you wouldn't be pregnant :roll:

and your only getting whats coming to ya because you complain about everybody elses post lol

and do you think I really give a care wether you think my opinion is correct or not?

No because I know in the end, your gonna be a little 18 years old with a baby and you wont know what to do with yourself, haha

good luck is all I can say love, lol

DaliciaLynn

replied on August 26th, 2005

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Your insults are lame, and don't affect me.

You make me giggle, and I love you for it.

No hate in my heart, love. =)

sxcgirl_me

replied on August 26th, 2005

Experienced User

Lol.

Dag nabbit your supposed to get p o'd

oh I live for the arguments lmao

DaliciaLynn

replied on August 26th, 2005

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So entertaining isn't it?

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