Why was she in his bed if they didn't do anything? Think about it. And even if they didn't do anything her being in bed with him is pretty clear that something was intended to happen but for what ever reason maybe didn't. Whatever you decide to do is up to you. Just because he hurt you doesn't mean your feelings for him are going to disappear just like that which is why you still love him and the need to take him back could be because you two have been together for 3 years and without him things just don't feel right. But I know if I were you i'd be wondering how long this had been going on and if you hadn't walked in on them how long it would have continued to go on behind your back. Good luck with whatever you decide to do.

You might still love him but do you still have the same respect for him, can you really trust him like you did before? The only way to get over one is by meeting someone else, don't you fell you deserve better? After all, it is your choice. Good luck!

Oh hell no dump his as$... Are you kidding me. I love my husband to death but if I ever caught him cheating on my i'd cut his dick off. If he is sleeping around behind your back think of the stds he could give you... And you being in the navy. What do you think is happening when your on float? Seriously, you know what to do. It may hurt but this guy is a peice of sh*t.

I agree with vannessa. I don' think you should give this guy a second chance, but I guess that's just my opinion. This probably isn't the first time he's cheated on you. He may be sleeping around with other girls or have been sleeping with this one for who knows how long! Im sorry, im just really sensitive to this kind of thing right now. I've been very suspicious lately that my boyfriend is cheating on me. If I ever find out that he is, I will not look back. I will pack my bags and move back home with my mom. I wont give him the time of day. I wont let him treat me like that!

-becka

Talk first, dump next. If he can't give you a good reason over why she was in bed, then leave him and focus on finding someone good in your life who won't do something like that.