My guy of 4 years, who has lived with me like a husband and we even got engaged recently finally unceremoniously came and informed me that his parents have fixed his marriage with another girl. Trust me I couldnt believe it. Loads of questions went through my head. Why didnt he stand up for me? If he really loved me how can he agree to marry someone else?


I was so pissed and asked him if he would have left me if we were legally engaged and his parents wanted him to and he said no. I also asked him that if I was pregnant would he have left me and he said no. Then I asked him what difference does it make if I had a child, the point is should a guy stay cause of a child or cause of a legal tag a relationship is a relationship and a tag is just for the world to see. Should it be taken any less seriously.


He is also an severe epileptic patient whose liver is about 70% spoilt and they have not informed the girl (his future wife) about the whole truth. I mean I took care of him when he was sick for so long, did his dirty laundry, cooked meals for him, had sex with him, went out. All of a sudden when he left me, without even fighting with his parents over me I seriously felt like this was child's play. We had got engaged a couple of weeks earlier and I cannot believe it that he let himself get engaged to some other female (i dont give a damn about her). He is clearly a backboneless piece of crap who considered the relationship like a child's pretend play game and was using me for everything. Oh man I am on a row now and hate him for doing this to me. But more than that I was a fool to let myself get involved in it in the first place.