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Q: relationship advice !
asked by: ~baby~g~ on August 22nd, 2005
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Things are still going on with my bf, I figured I would give him a few weeks after our convo. About our relationship to straighten up & nothing really happened. I mean I understand that on the weekends he wants to be with his friends, I do to, but all's i'm asking for is for him to take a little time out of his day to talk to me..Thats all, is that to much? I always, always make time for him, no matter what i'm doing. Last night we really got into a bad argument..Which continued into today. He called me at 2am & I was upset because I was getting worried about him..That's just how I am..I care about him & love him. He has been such a jerk to me, and now he's apologizing..I don't even know if I believe him or not, thats pathetic. Then today he tried sucking up to me by talking to me as long as I wanted..C'mon! I love him, but when he blows up on me when he's upset or mad at someone else isn't fair. I understand he has a lot of stress in his life right now, but it's not my fault..I'm here for him. Earlier I asked him what he was doing tonight & he told me..But then he was like I don't know what time i'll be home or anything so I don't know when i'll be able to talk to you. So I said okay then i'll just talk to you tomorrow..& he says here you go again..Getting in your jealous mood..That started it all again & I hung up on him! I figured he would call back..But nah I had to call him back. I'm just really sick of crying & being in pain. He says he loves me, and he knows I love him..So what's his problem. Everytime I tell him i'll just back off & let him be with his friends he gets pissed to..So0o!!


Then there's another guy..I've known for at least a year now. We used to be close & talked about getting together awhile ago. Then somethings happened & he ended up with one of my friends because I got with the guy i'm with now..Well things didn't work out between him & my friend..So we've been talking. Tonight he told me that he really had feelings for me all along, even while he was with my friend. He even asked me if I would ever consider getting with him..He's a sweet guy, awesome personality, very cute heh..But when I think about breaking up with my bf it breaks my heart soooo much!! Any advice??
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bini
replied on September 17th, 2009
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Hi!How you're doing?
I can understand what you are going through.I believe that in a relationship the commitment must be mutual.I feel that you are more involved in this relationship owing to which - your guy takes advantage of it and you expectations are high as well.I would suggest you to sit back and relax and take some time off him - he needs to understand your worth and not treat you like a doormat.Most importantly do things that make you happy and honestly don't jump into another relationship yet-you'll be in a mess.Good luck.
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