This is a weird question but I have to ask. First let me say I am not your typacal wife. I am ok with my husband watching porn and sometimes I watch it with him.
I have several questions I want to ask. So please someone answer
my husband and I have been married for 10months and are expecting our first child. Several months ago I realized that our sex life really was not all that great so I suggested that we go to the adult store and see if we could find anything that would spice it up. First it was lingerie than it became a vibrator then it became porn. Now I know that most people are like what the hell this woman is crazy for being ok with porn well I am. Which brings me to my new problem I am now 8 months pregnant and as you can imagine I am pretty big well just my belly is anyway. So I told my husband that I pretty much cant have sex anymore. I mean I donât intend on leaving him hanging.
Well here is my problem I am bipolar so as you can imagine sometimes I can lose my temper, be jealous of stupid things and be really insecure of myself. Well now that I have gave him permission to watch that stuff I am terrified that he will become addicted to it and not want me anymore. See I also know that I brought this upon myself because he had given up porn to be with me, but then like I said I wanted to please him and do what ever it took to better our relationship. I am not going to lie and pretend that before I worried about him getting addicted I liked watching it to. I mean I loved how we would watch it and then we would re-enact whatever scene we really liked (well the ones that I could do anyway). I am also afraid that he really doesnât find me attractive like he once did even though my body has changed for the good lets just say went from a c to d. I know that he loves me but sometimes I am just so scared that he will hurt me the way other people have and the way that he did once upon a time. After I explained to him that what he was doing was wrong and hurting me he quit.
Ok if youâre a man replying I want you to answer this.
Your wife or girlfriend is pregnant and she canât really be intimate the way that she once could but here is the catch she still manages to get the both of you off itâs a long process but it happens. As if you didnât already know this is about me and my husband.
Which of the following do you do?
She tells you that it is ok to watch porn with or without her.
Which do you do?
She tells you that you can jack off to porn or a movie that she made for you.
I am a guy, you said that you are 8 months pregnant so it is only matter of weeks and you will be due, if I am your husband and I love you too much I would choose to stop my sexual activities for those weeks (man can survive without sex for few weeks) and tell you that this will make us just miss each other more and when the time comes to have sex again it will be more spicy and like a new honey moon
may be I will jack off few times when I am really horny, but without making you feel guilty
Thank you, I think that he feels that way but to be honest sometimes im not so sure. I know that we need to probably stop but like I said for the first four months it only happend every once and a while then 5-8 its been happing alot. So I feel kinda resposible for all of this.
Just dont push yourself too much, I think you are just a sensitive person (which is good) and you love him so much, but believe me we can survive without sex for sometimes (unless ofcourse of you are the kind of unresistable girl ;)
dont worry too much, just think about your new baby
Yes I am the guy with question about hot men, I read your reply, thanks for that
and actually I am asking because I really wonder why some girls get very attracted to some guy who look really normal, for girls it is more or less obvious if a girl is hot 99% of the guys will think the same, but in the men case it really varies, thats why I was wondering, and actually I have got replies that really made me surprised, I hope the girls who replied were serious about what they are saying
I was speaking the truth on my half and I would say almost all the woman that wrote you were honest to. We care about looks but not as much as men do and well its not the parts that you would think ether.
I mean well men worry about girls boobs or her legs or even her butt. But woman its much deeper than that. Well sometimes but I guess anyone can be that way.
:lol: its funny and I have to say this but my husband is a boob man and well when we meet I was a b then by the time that we got married I became a c and now that I am pregnant I am a d. It's like I told him love the person and you will be supprised on what could happen. What I am saying is he loved me not just for looks but my personality and now look he got something extra out of the deal, and as for my husband being lucky to have me he could have done better. But I am glad that he chose me. 8) :d
Angel my hubby and I had the same problem. I am bipolor too, only diff. I was restricted from having sex. High risk pregnancy. It all worked out fine in the end (we now have a healthy 8 month old girl). And unless your doc said no sex you can have it up to the day you deliver, you just have to be creative :)