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Q: "dry Sex" - Scared Out of My Mind (pregnancy)

asked by: concernedBF on August 21st, 2005

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Someone please help me out, my girlfriend (17, just got off her period around time of this activity) and myself (18) got ahead of ourselves. I decided I should rub the head of my penis around her clitoris area(no clothes). I was halfway erect. I never once went inside her or got near the actual hole, I just kind of nudged the clitoris area (near the top) we did this for all of maybe 10-15 seconds. I did not see any precum at all, and I definetly did not ejaculate. I know its not along time but I just really would like to put my mind to ease. I'm very nervous right now and am probably over reacting but I just want to hear someone's insight who has expirience and more knowledge then I do. We are both so worried and realize we have been irresponsible.

Ps: she is a virgin, I dont know if this matters.... And washed with soap and water immediatly after this happened, very thouroughly

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DaliciaLynn

replied on August 21st, 2005

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I don't think you have anything to worry about.

Don't stress about it!

concernedBF

replied on August 22nd, 2005

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Thanks, its just I wanted to be certain because I am just starting college and she will be soon too, and although we love each other very much we in no way shape or form want a child right now. I've read your other posts/replies and you are very helpful to the other worry warts like me on this board, so thanks =d

DaliciaLynn

replied on August 22nd, 2005

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I'm glad you think my opinions are helpful!

Waiting to have a child is wonderful, you could give them such a better life if you wait! I'm 17 and just turned 4 months pregnant today.

Even though I got pregnant on birth control I still wish it could have waited!

concernedBF

replied on August 22nd, 2005

New User

Well i'm sorry it didnt turn out like you wanted, I hope everything goes ok with your baby though, im sure it will.

As for my scenario, do you think it would even be necessary to test her at all? I just wanted to be aboslutely certain that a close encounter like that although very brief and without penetration wouldnt be near enough to impregnant her.

DaliciaLynn

replied on August 22nd, 2005

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Serioulsy...You have nothing to worry about.

Don't stress yourself out!

Especially if she is now on her period? She'll have to wait until her next period and if it's late then she needs to take a pregnancy test, but I truly doubt she is pregnant.

concernedBF

replied on August 23rd, 2005

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Well she was still on her period last wendsday I know for sure, sunday is when this all happened and she def was not on it then. So she had just gotten off it when we did this. And if im not mistaken that means shes not even in her fertile window so that reduces the chances of pregnancy even further doesnt it?

She has noticed her breasts are "fuller" but not sore or tender which is a sign. I think this might just be all in her head... Could that even happen after only two days?

concernedBF

replied on August 23rd, 2005

New User

Anyone else have anything to say? I know this is annoying but this is the only forum that will respond.

DaliciaLynn

replied on August 23rd, 2005

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The first sign I noticed was my boobs were really really sore. Your boobs are weird on your period anyways, so it's probably just regular period symptoms.

It seems as if everything seems okay and she's not pregnant, if she was I don't know why she would of had a period. It's not very common but some women do actually have their periods the full 9 months.

I think your safe and have nothing to worry about, but if it makes you feel any better have her go to the hospital and get some blood taken, blood tests can tell sooner if your pregnant.

Good luck!

concernedBF

replied on August 23rd, 2005

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She hasnt had her period, she had just gotten off her period either wendsday/thursday/friday/saturday of last week. It hasnt even been a week since her last period. We fooled around on sunday. Shes 17 so I dont think anyone will test her without a parents consent right?.... We dont want to let anyone know about this yet.

DaliciaLynn

replied on August 24th, 2005

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Babe!!

You don't need a parents consent to get tested! You can buy a pregnancy test at a store that's called, "4 days sooner" it's 4 days sooner than you're missed period.

When is her period supposed to come again?

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