Well, before he did get engaged- we would talk everyday, for atleast 4 hours- I would go out of my way just to talk to him and stay up way late and end up like a zombie in my classes and at my school activities (sports and stuff, not sleeping doesn't really help.). We've been talking for everyday, or atleast every other day, 4 hours a peice for a whole year. I think he truly relied on me in an emotional way, and just because i'm two states away, it took away alot of the pressure of talking to someone face to face. Thats why I think we connected the way we did.

He drifted away from me after she came in the picture, I totally understand and am thrilled for him. He never really put a good effort in contacting me after that, or staying in touch... But then again, he had problems with his ex's, his future wife, and his buisiness. But he always said, we should still be friends, and we'll always be cool, that it would be his closure. I cant have him, I wish I was older so I could- but I can't, and I accept that- although I don't like it.

Now, after a few weeks of not talking, he comes back and says "someone asked me if I was still talking to that girl, and it just made me think of how we were." I feel pretty influenced on the fact that he needed someone to remind him of me so he would approach me- after all, I tried countless times to reach him, and it just wasn't fair for me. I hate him for messing with my head like that, but I truley have moved on, but everything seems to remind me of him.

Should I still keep in contact with him for occasional hi's and bye's, or just be done with it? If I had a major problem, I know that he would be there as a shoulder for me to cry on, but then again he'll be married, and there is only room for one major girl in his head, friend or wife...