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Q: Question From a Guy
asked by: truckstophero on August 18th, 2005
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100% honesty please!

Do women actually enjoy giving men blowjobs or do they mainly do it because they know the guy will enjoy it?

I think alot of men really enjoy giving women oral sex, but I always wondered if thats cause we are just turned on more by sight and would be into anything but women are less into it and more into the intimate, caressing, side of sex...
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Kails
replied on August 19th, 2005
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Well I cant speak for all women, but I personally love giving my bf a blowjob. Its very sexy, not to mention gets things moving for the evening :lol:
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churchie_7
replied on August 19th, 2005
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It's not my most favorite thing when it comes to sex but since my husband really enjoys it, then so do i!
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SaraAnne
replied on August 19th, 2005
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Yeah, most women i've talked to about this definately only do it for the guys benefit. I don't really know why guys like giving girls that more so than girls giving guys. But most girls don't get turned on by the sight of a naked man. Maybe a topless man or something but ya know. I guess it's just different!
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Ambience24
replied on August 19th, 2005
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Depends On the Guy..
But usually for the guy's benifit only, I don't get any pleasure from swallowing even though I do it :( eww. To spit would be rude I think, but my current bf know's its' not meant to offend him, so I don't have to endure that anymore.

Good luck to any girls who like it, ( I think they are kidding though ) unless drunk, when it's different story, can be quite sexy then, guess because i'm more relaxed.

Just my oppinion.
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Kails
replied on August 21st, 2005
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Humm well as said above I like it even when im not drunk. I am attracted to my man when he is totally naked to. I think it just depends on how you look at it. It makes me feel sexy knowing that I can turn him on so much, and as for swallowing I actually do like it. And I like trying different thing with my mouth/tounge and hands to see the different reactions I can get out of him. :d I dont know, but I think that sex should never be a chore if your doing somehting that you dont really like doing just cause the other person like it than it takes the fun out of it :p
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x0x011
replied on August 21st, 2005
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I agree with kails. But I do have to say it depends on my mood. If it feels like a chore, and i'm not really into it, then I don't even bother. But when i'm really in the mood, it's fun to please him, and we both get something out of it.
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Mizzoula
replied on August 21st, 2005
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I totally love giving my boyfriend blowjobs, but i've always had a higher sex drive than a lot of my female friends. It all depends on the girl... I think there is nothing sexier than the male body and penis, and I actually get really wet giving blowjobs (my boyfriend was like you... He was totally floored the first time he felt how excited it got me). But I know a lot of girls who just do it because they think they're expected to. And some of them just stop doing it altogether once they're married.

It's the same thing with guys, if you think about it. I've met guys who love going down on girls and think the female body is the sexiest thing they've ever seen... And then there are guys who like sex, but who don't like giving oral.

By the way... It's possible to teach a girl to like giving oral. One of my friends used to hate doing it until I gave her some pointers and now it's her favourite thing in the world.
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vanessalouanne
replied on August 22nd, 2005
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Depends on the person. Honestly, I do not enjoy doing it at all. Thats probably because my husband is larger then average and it is really hard to.

Honestly the only thing I enjoy is seeing him feel good, but the actual act? I hate it. No pointers would make me enjoy it. I get lock jaw from opening to wide, but hey my two best girl friends absolutly love it. I mean one of my girls and her mom even talk about how they both love to swallow (i know how wrong is that)

whatever your into I guess.
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abbymae
replied on August 22nd, 2005
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I have never given anyone a blowjob. 1) I don't know if there is a special technique or whatever 2) I honestly think it's...Not so much gross....But just not appealing! I don't know if anyone has tips for me but I never have and don't plan to anytime soon. Maybe when i'm in a serious relationship then I might.
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sxcgirl_me
replied on August 23rd, 2005
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You know what.

I dont like doing it most of the time.
But when I do feel like doing it for my boyfriend I will just do it cause all the praise and compliments from him make it enough for me to enjoy it.

I also love doing it when my boyfriend asks me in the innocent little way he asks me :)

but I definately do enjoy the more intimate parts a lot more, so we only leave the oral sex for very few occasions.

And I think when you absolutely love every bit of your boyfriend/husband

then you learn to love every bit of his body.

I never loved any of my old boyfriends bodies the way I love paul's
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