Who to Have In Room With You When Getting Ultrasound Done? Posted: 08-18-05 11:20am
Hey I need some advice I am really torn.
I asked my mom if she wanted to
go with me and my husband for
my next ultrasound when we go
to find out the sex of our baby.
Well my husband is not too
happy with this decision but I
already asked my mom a couple
of weeks ago and she's really
looking forward to it. He said
that this is our first baby and that he
feels
that this is something we should
experience together.....Alone, and that
if
i want my mom could come in after we are
told
what our baby is. But I think that
by then what's the point of her
even going if she'd miss the ultrasound?
Then said that it's fine if she'd go but
he won't go if she does.
Why can't she just go to another
ultrasound
after we find out what we're having? Then
if you want
she can be in the delivery room.
Maybe i'm wrong but I feel that it's ok
for my mom to
go....Especially since I asked her if she
wanted to a
couple of weeks ago. Also I want her to
be in the
delivery room when I have my baby.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks! :)
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Jordan H
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Jun 2005 Posts: 74 Location: Calgary, AB, Canada
Posted: 08-18-05 11:32am
I am sorry to say that I would have to
agree with your husband on this one. All
the excitement and anxiaty that you are
feeling right now with this pregnancy your
husband is feeling as well, it sounds like
he just wants to be included, after all it
is his baby too right??
Good luck, and congratulations.
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Nicknack
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2005 Posts: 272
Posted: 08-18-05 11:33am
Of course it's his baby. But after asking
my mom to go and finding out how much
she's looking forward ot it, I can't just
tell her no!
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Nicknack
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2005 Posts: 272
Posted: 08-18-05 12:05pm
Ok we figured it out as to what we will
do. I will have it so that me and my
husband are alone most of the ultrasound
'til we are told what our baby is, after
that I will have my husband or the girl
step outside and bring my mom in. When my
mom comes in hopefully she'll ask my mom
:"want to know what your grandchild is"?
Then hopefully she'll continue with the
ultrasound and it'll be over with.
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Jordan H
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Jun 2005 Posts: 74 Location: Calgary, AB, Canada
Posted: 08-18-05 12:09pm
That sounds like a really good idea to
make everyone happy. It sounds like you
are really close to your mom, that is
great to know, my mom and I are really
close as well, but I don't know how
comfortable I would be with her in the
delivery room with me, looks like you have
an endless stream of support.
