Problems At School With Other Girls

This girl has a jealousy problem by the sounds of it. Your probably alot prettier than her, and liked alot more.

I had the same problem when I was in high school. These twins picked on me everyday, they would push me into lockers, and call me names. I didn't find out until a few years later, that both there boyfriends, apparently had the "hots" for me.

Girls act like that when they are intimidated. Just ignore the b%tch...As hard as that sounds..Be the best person you can be, and keep your head up high.

Everything comes back to haunt you, so she'll get it back in some form, twice as bad.

However, if it does get physical..Go to you principal immediatley.

Thanks sammy001 you helped alot :wink:

What grade are you in?

Iam a freshmen and so is she

It might not be jealousy, look at colombine, those guys were picked on and I doubt anyone was jealous of them. What kind of girl is this? And have you ever seen heathers?

There like you no those kinds of girls that do drugs and are mean for no reaosn!

Well, they must hate you for some stupid reason but here's what you can do. Tell them you can score them some good drugs, lace it rat poision, and voila! Or maybe... Take a karate class, practice on your karate chops and do like ash in army of darkness. Kick some major ass. Just walk up to her and go nuts... Say, "i know what you're thinkin, i'm some crazy suckers, well, i'm here to chew bubble gum and super. And i'm all outta bubble gum." and then get a tick in your face, that is key... She'll think you're off your thorazine and have gone totally mad. No more problems!

For the last 2 years of high school I went through kinda the same thing... These 3 or 4 girls hated me because they all had a crush on my boyf and his cousin ... My boyf hated them cos they were nasty and used to try and get him to cheat on me and stuff so he used to call them sl*ts etc anyway they seemed to think this was my fault and whenever they would see me or walk past me at school would say "sl*t" or something stupid like that or just give me dirty looks...

I just completely ignored them and gave them no reaction... It didnt bother me much cos I wasnt scared of them and I new they wouldnt dare to touch me or anythig but the key is to just ignore her and im sure she will get over wateva it is that bothers her or lose interest cos if u show noreaction then she will get bored and hassle someone else

Hightension I hope you are kidding...

I had the same problem too, I was the new kid and there was always someone who thought they were better than me. It sounds like this girl just wants people to know the school is her domain, and the new kid always has the air of mystery about them, were they popular at their old school? Will they be the new 'queen' of the grade? Will her best friend get along with you more?

Girls do stupid health forum things, we all do, but you just have to ignore it. Shes acting like lil kids do in pre school when the good toy is already taken. I know its hard and can make things miserable, but if you show her you dont care she'll move onto someone else. Just dont sink to her level, you are so much better than that.

Yep, high school feckin sucks. Im 16, and I went through soo much of that girl gossipy bullying crap in grade 7 and 8. Here's my best advice:

1. Gossip as little as possible because others find out about it pretty much every time.

2. Keep a good group of friends that you can really trust to help you through stuff and get your back when people are suckers.

3. Try not to let what other people say get to you. If you're nice to people and don't do stupid things like sleep around and drink excessively/ do lots of drugs, people have no reason to health forum about you. Obviously they're low on themselves so just rise above it.

4. The more you let a person's bullying get to you, the more they bully you because they see you as an easy target. Just laugh it off when people say mean things about you, because it actually is kind of funny that they have to diss people to be happy. I mean come on. That's funny.

Hope that helps!

I had a problem with a girl like that in hs too. One thing I learned was, and I think its the same with boys, they can sense when you're intimidated. Show her you're not afraid of her, and that you don't care what she thinks, only thing anyone proves by fighting is they are too dumb to deal with anything normally!

Record every time she harasses you, or gives you a dirty look. If she starts talking crap to you, record that too. If it gets worse, talk to a conselor or a teacher.

It seems you do not know why she is doing this, and neither do we. Becareful, and do not do anything to make her confront you.

Lastly, do not try to suck up to her. Ignore her the best you can. If you did see a chance to solve the tension, do so. But if there is no chance, do not try to make one. It will not work.

But whatever you do, record things, write it down. Date and time, and who was present to see it happen. If it continues and you find that you can not cope, see the help of a teacher. Present the little notebook you used to record all the incidents of harassment, and so on.

Ignore her, but do not ignore the problem. Becareful.