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Q: My Best Friend Is Pregnant At 14- What Should We Do!

asked by: mybfispregat14help on November 25th, 2003

New User

Hi um...Ya my best friend is fourteen and pregnant. She doesn't believe in abortion, and I odn't know if I do either. But if she goes through wiht having the kid, it could screw up ehrlife forever. The guy who's the father doesn't know yet. We just found out today. But we're scared for him to. Although I really dislike him, she has intense feelings for him- even if htey did split up. Any how, they had previously talked about teen pregnancy before hte sex and he siad he'd shoot himself if that happened. We're scared to tell him. What should we do!
Should she have the baby and give it up for adoption or just have an abortion? And how should we tell the guy.
I don't check this stuff so email me. Plz dont send junk mail cuz i'm not interested. This is serious.

Thanks a bunch! Crying or Very sad

Replies(9)

mommyof4

replied on November 25th, 2003

New User

She needs to talk to her mother. At her age, her mother should be involved in any decision she makes like this. She is too young to handle this alone.

hisboo4lyfe

replied on April 2nd, 2009

New User

she needs to go talk to her mother or someone that can help her and she needs to see a doctor asap!

aochriss

replied on April 3rd, 2009

Extremely eHealthy

Since you are asking for our advice, I will give you my opinion. I would have an abortion.

serenitylove

replied on April 4th, 2009

New User

please pay attention to the dates these were posted, your replying to a lot from 03-05 lol Smile

jordan1515

replied on April 19th, 2009

New User

omg me tew

well my bff is preggers teww i feel ver srri 4 yeww im very disapointed in mi frnd to do what she did and i bet u are too but u needa step up to the plate and be there for her and be the best friend you can be to her and thats all i can give u advice on :] thnx and bii

NativoLupo

replied on June 4th, 2009

New User

Honestly, since this happened six years ago... All I can say is I hope your friend had the baby [: I'm fourteen, still a virgin and waiting for Mr. Right (Yes, I believe in a Mr. Right). I don't really have any experience to lend any advice from, but I do have a firm belief in God. Although, this probably wasn't the path God chose for your friend- but, a path she chose for herself, just believe in God and he'll see her through. God always has another door open [:

imhavinaboy1

replied on June 11th, 2009

New User

Hi my name is Rubie im 16 and 6months.....I think that you should tell the father of the baby no matter what he said he would do i think you should not give it up no matter what because the baby didn't ask to be here...don't wait to long to tell him because he would probably start to denied the baby and i think she really doesn't want to go through that...im still with my baby's father and he's scared but happy at the same time and me and his family are very supportive

Simonesimmy

replied on July 28th, 2009

New User

Abortion

Believe in abortion or not
Her life will be ruined if she goes through with it. The pain of birthing at 14 is very great too. I think abortion is the best option for now. Or at least adoption. But keeping the fetus will ruin her life. And for future she should get birth control it'll help a lot. I should know I'm 14 and I haven't gotten pregnant (:

mommyandwifey1211

replied on August 16th, 2009

Experienced User

you shouldnt do anything. its all up to her-shes young but it doesnt mean it will ruin her life. if she doesnt want an abortion there are other options like adoption.

what she needs is a friend that will be behind her not no matter what.

as far as the guy-he sounds dramatic! he knew the repercussions of having sex and her needs to man up,grow up and be there to help no matter what

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