My Wife Doesn't Orgasm!! Help!! Posted: 08-16-05 18:07pm
I am a male 31 years old. I have only
had sex once before marriage with another
girl at the age of 24. I have been
married for 7 months and before marriage
we were sexual but never had intercourse.
Now I try and try but she never comes
to orgasm. Not even when I do oral
anymore; which used to work. She always
has to masturbate afterwards. I feel
like a sexual prop instead of a partner.
Why!?!? I want to please her! But
how? Help me please!!!!!!!
Last edited by WILLIAM1974 on 08-16-05 18:18pm; edited 1 time in total
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mommy of 1
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jul 2005 Posts: 291 Location: traverse city michigan
Posted: 08-16-05 18:15pm
Maybe she is thinking about it to much, im
sure she enjoys it. Its harder for some
women to orgasim during sex. Does she
orgasim from other things??? Dont ask her
all of the time if she did or not because
that will put to much pressure on her to
orgasim. Does that make sense??
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mommy of 1
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jul 2005 Posts: 291 Location: traverse city michigan
Posted: 08-16-05 18:17pm
Another thing is that orgasim during sex
feels totally different than an orgasim
from clitoral stimulation, at least in my
case, maybe she is having orgasims and she
is not aware because of the different
feeling :?
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abbymae
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Apr 2005 Posts: 20
Posted: 08-22-05 20:39pm
I have never orgasmed from sexual
intercourse. I only have while
masturating. Like mommy 1 said, it's
totally different....Well i'm guessing it
is. I can't orgasm throught intercourse.
Do something outside of me and I
can....Don't get upset with your wife.
It's something that she probably can't
control. Just try different positions and
different role playing or something. Use
your imagination.
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anonymousn
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Joined: 25 Jul 2005 Posts: 5
a Suggestion Posted: 08-23-05 01:42am
Have you thought about asking her what she
wants? Where she needs you to apply more
pressure or how she'd like you to
move?Etc. Maybe next time you have sex
you can ask her during whether something
you're doing feels good or tell her that
any suggestions during sex to tell you.
Try sitting on a chair and having her on
top doing a lot of the work that way
she'll do what she needs to do to get
stimulated and you won't have to worry
that it's your "fault".
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sxcgirl_me
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 May 2005 Posts: 372 Location: Sydney - Australia
Posted: 08-23-05 02:10am
Well I have to say im the same.
My partner paul used to be able to make me
climax ina certain position when we had
sex, but I haven't climaxed like that in a
long time.
But you know what always works for me,
masturbation,
now this is too much information so if you
dont like reading this stuff.
Stop
reading!!!!!!!!!!!
What me and paul do now is, I have him use
his finger instead of mine (mine dont
work) and then I put a back massager down
there and just hold it there and it works
every time.
The fingers and the vibration combined
feels great :)
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Primetime
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Jul 2005 Posts: 2 Location: California
Posted: 08-23-05 16:35pm
Women can have several different types of
orgasms and all women are different.
However, a majority have citorial orgasms
most of the time. Have you tried
massaging her g-spot? This is one of the
most intense orgasms as well as
ejaculation.
