My question :?: is.... What am I suppose to think. Dh is 36 and has had problems with depression for many yrs and has taken antidepressants for yrs. Is also an ex drunk and druggy.
Been with dh for 6 yrs and at first he couldn't get enough sex and i've always been that way. Then he started having erectile funtion problems, but doctor can't figure out what's wrong with him, but gave him viagra. He's scared to take much of anything and because of all the bad stuff, refuses to take it.
Most everytime he does get hard, it falls within mins. Now he doesn't even bother and it makes me feel bad about myself and unwanted. We've had toys in the bedroom for yrs to help and now it's just getting worse. Everyone says, use the toys and forget him..... Well it's not the same !!!
I refuse to cheat, because I love him way too much to even think about doing that and i'm dedicated to this marriage.
Is there anything that I can do, or that he can do? Is there anything I can say to get him to tell our (female) doctor? Heck she's seen all he has as much as I have, is he just to shy to tell her that the dam thing doesn't work? :!: :evil: :cry: :? :shock:
it makes me wonder what I have to look forward to later on in our 40's....
Any advice would be helpful.
Thanks
p.S. New to the board also.