To me 10 to 12 inches hurt me really bad. It depends on the girl though. Everyone is different. The big around penis was painful and felt like ripping too.

I like my little 6 to 7 1/2 guys. That is all ive ever enjoyed, and ive had my share of average ones.

I have found men with smaller one , under 5" are normaly much better in bed more giving, the oens with 8" are jsut arogent a$$holes they think that the size is all that matters and having a 5-7" dick as apposed to a 5ft 7" walking talkign dick is much better.

Mmost men will get off by ramming,, long hard thrusts.. I simply could not handle it.. It hurts too much when they hit the top.. Average os good!

Yep!!

Well in my experience I have always love the bigger ones like 8 . Depending on what type of person you are it can hurt extremely bad. But to me I love it because I can feel everything. With people who have been smaller than that I like it at first, but then I can't feel it anymore. I guess it gets boring and aggravating that I can't do everything I want to do, with out having to adjust positions all the time. The bigger the better to me. Sometimes pain is pleasure but not to much pain it really depends on your relationship with the guy. I have never gotton rammed or felt they were going so fast and so hard I couldn't take it. I tell them what I want and they do it, simple as that.

I have had a few boyfriends and in my opinion when I first started having sex a smaller dick was better but once I was a lil more used to it the biggers are amazing!!! One of my last boyfriends had an 11 inch and omg that was the best. But hey maybe thats just me

I hear you I don't know how big my new man is but he is huge!!!! And I love every minute of it.

No, I seriously dont know why guys worry about this type of thing. Personally, big willys dont phase me at all. Wateva. A dick iz a dick

Most important thing with women is to feel safe, loved, secure. Then they can relax enough to achieve orgasm. If you have a huge dick and are totally selfish about yourself and just shove it in like a pool cue she wont have any semblance of pleasure\. However, even if you have a 2 inch penis and are sensitive to her needs, able to pleasure her with your tongue and fingers and finish off with some penetrative slow sex I am sure she will prefer you to a 15 inch arrogant prick. (no pun intended)

The thing is women come in different sizes too. It is all about finding the right fit. Of course most women are fine with a fairly wide variety of sizes though.

She's not making it up, i'm in the same situation! My guy wonders if i'm just boosting his pride or being honest. She's probably being honest!

I feel like thickness and shape matter more than length. I'd take a 6" guy who's 1 1/2-2" in diameter with a big head over a 10" guy who's 1" in diameter and a bit pointy any day. Your gf is right, though... I've been with two men who I felt were "too big." sex hurt and oral was totally impossible. 6" is totally perfect... Especially if you know how to use it. Sounds like you two are a perfect match. :d

Extremely large penes will hurt for obvious reasons, but it's all down to the girl. If your girlfriend prefers you anyway, I don't know why you're complaining!

I think your size is fine. The bigger the dick, the more liable to tear the woman which is very painful at times (from experience). I would rather a size that does not tear me but is also enjoyable! Good luck!

You know what?

My boyfriend paul always asks me exactly the same question :)

because he knows the my boyfriend before him was huge, he thinks that im not satisfied with him, which is completely untrue.

With my ex, it always hurt at different times of the months so it was hardly ever comfortable and it always hurt,
where with my boyfriend now, his penis is an average size and I have climaxed more with him than anyone.

It always feels comfortable and it never hurts, but its just the right size to feel really really good,

his penis is a perfect fit for my vagina ::p

The bigger it is the more it seems to hurt, but if your too small you wonder after a while if he's still moving around in there. In between just right couldn't ask for more.

My husbands is perfect..And I wouldn't want it any bigger... I have never got the old ruler out..So I don't know exaclty how big it is, but I am guessing 6-7 inches. And that is all I need... Sometimes..Like right after the baby was born...I wish he had a little dick..Becuase we weren't able to get it on for almost 3 months!

Honestly, I don't enjoy big dicks. My boyfriends dick is about 6 inches and I think it is perfect. Some women dont like them big because they hurt. I agree with them 100%!!

I dont know big dicks dont hurt me at all but I prefer them to be at least 8-9 inches anything else is just to big even if it dosent hurt

From a man's point of view, about 7 inches is good. Men who have 10-12" do scare a lot of women. Most women would love to have an experience with a 9" just once, but anything over that is usually painful.

I (and my previous lovers) love my 7.75". It is just big enough to make them very happy with a bigger penis but not enough to scare or discourage them. With most of my encounters, the woman would wince and tell me to slow down if I was hitting it hard in doggy style or other positions where a full penetration is possible.