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Q: Hymen Breakage? Etc...

asked by: shortie02 on August 11th, 2005

Experienced User

What's the best way to break the hymen? It hurt so bad when my bf was trying to push into me, but I just "held on" and wanted him to break it for him to penetrate me. Is that the best way? Or should you stretch it repeatedly, and then it will break "smoother" when he eventually inserts?

Also, is being "horny" just wanting it? Sometimes, when I "want," I feel my clit getting "excited." but sometimes, nothing at all, just the desire and acting upon. There doesn't seem to be anything tingling or great about the sexual experience -- its all: relax and there's something special about it all. Sometimes I get the great o when my bf fingers me. Is all this normal? It seems like a guy has more "fun" than women, or is it just me? Thx!

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3kizz

replied on August 12th, 2005

Experienced User

So you just don't dry hump. You have women cat fighting in the other forum when you are actually having sex. As far as the hyman you might not even have one. Some women do have one, some women can break it in invasive activities. And some can be born without. It mostly always hurts when you have sex for thr first time. Pleasure is around the corner. Relax and try to enjoy

shortie02

replied on August 12th, 2005

Experienced User

Thanks 3kizz. I shouldn't have wrote what I wrote about the prayer. I was getting so mad at that lady who should have just answered the questions from her knowledge, not her philosophy. Gaah! It just really hurt, I really love my b/f and wouldn't leave him if a herd of wild horses attempted to drag me from him. Yeah, I am totally unsure about things and I have no one to talk to who has had experience which is why I am on this site. And I am just so curious about everything - I don't know if i'm normal or doing the wrong things or what. Thanks 3kizz. And if anyone else has info, that would be great if you could share it. Pz.

3kizz

replied on August 12th, 2005

Experienced User

If you ant more ?'s sent me a private message

Tylanas

replied on August 28th, 2005

Especially eHealthy

You need to get the right angle for him to slide in "smoothly", that's the most important thing about sex :)

if he's got an akward angle, it can be painful even if you've got a gaping hole down thre; he's never getting in! You have to adjust it till it will simply slide right in. Stretching the entrance to your vagina can help to make it less painful. I'm figuring that the first tiem you tried, it was simply the wrong angle. Try from behind; it's shallower, so it's less painful for your first time; plus it's easier for him to get the entrance angle just right.

shortie02

replied on August 29th, 2005

Experienced User

Time has passed - hymen has broke, and all has went well. Thank-you, though! :wink:

shortie02

replied on April 24th, 2006

Experienced User

I hate myself. I wish I could tear out my uterus.

jenn_smithson

replied on April 24th, 2006

Active User, very eHealthy

shortie02 wrote:

i hate myself. I wish I could tear out my uterus.

why?

Kia

replied on April 25th, 2006

Supporter

And why have you dragged up a post from almost a year ago?

I assume this means you are now pregnant?

And as for the comment of wishing you could tear out your uterus.... Be careful what you wish for it just may come true.

shortie02

replied on April 30th, 2006

Experienced User

How? How does one tear out her own uterus?

shawn0000

replied on May 1st, 2006

New User

My girl friend used me to break hers. So she could use tampons. She didn’t want the doctor to do it. So she pushed me on my bed. Then she got me hard. Then she put it in and left it there for awhile. Just sitting there. Well I ejaculated when she lifted up. So it didn’t matter any more so we just had sex after she was ready. So in the end she got pregnant. But we were in love any way so it didn’t matter. But that’s how I broke hers. She said it didn’t hurt at all to!

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