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Q: Bitterly Jealous Revengeful Grrrrrr

asked by: bbbbb on August 11th, 2005

New User

When I met my boyfriend we had blissful love, awesome attraction
then he made an issue of being a friend to his ex girlfriend because she insisted upon it
he made me go to her college graduation, we had mass problems over her, he finally dis'ed her and she left the situation
she's younger than me, tall i'm petite, though her face is doggier
she's so arrogant, european, thinks americans are stupid, she thinks she's better than me, always rolls her eyes when I see her, I hate her guts

i found a disgusting picture of her pulling up her dress and showing her nasty behind in a public place in his stacks of pictures of her, she thinks she's so sexy...

I want to sabotage the b*tch, I want to send this to her boss, to her sports colleagues, she puts herself across as a decent person when she's a promiscuous person...
She's dating a guy who divorced his ex wife over her, should I send the nasty ugly skanky picture to his ex or just to the males in her life that judge her...? I can send it anonymousely via email
i want her to cry 1/1000th the amount of time she's made me cry
i know I sound sick, I don't want to hurt her any more than she's made it a point to push her weight around and hurt others (i'm not the first to hate her)

Replies(4)

Ambience24

replied on August 11th, 2005

Experienced User

Not Worth It..

Only person this hurts is you ultimately. Remember it's not what you do in life, it's the person you become, no matter if you want revenge.It will be you who hurts in the long run, let it rest hun , I know it hurts, revenge is a bad feeling to hold in yourself, it can make you ill.

Try to get on with your life, if things go to s**t, then so be it. Be stong in yourself, build up yourself worth and see things in a nice light. You only live once, you will look back in a year and think nothing of this.

Also, your boyfriend should respect your wish that you don't want him to see his ex. Make it clear how much this hurts you to him. He is the one in the wrong here for wanting to contiunue the relationship with her when he is with you. Tell him if it's over with her, why remain friends if it is going to damage your relationship , be diplomatic hun it works best.

bme30

replied on August 11th, 2005

New User

The best thing to do is take care of you and your relationship. Dont worry about her. Shell get whatever it is she deserves. Your wasting good energy on her. Use that energy to rock ur mans world. :lol:

vanessalouanne

replied on August 11th, 2005

Extremely eHealthy

While I agree that you should take the high road and be the better person, reveange is sweet and I would try to get back at her skanky ass. Lets just get this out there, im not the bigger person. When I found pictures of exes in my husbands old room at his parents house. (which he hadnt cleaned in years) we went out and burned them, along with every letter or piece of memrobilia he had. I know this was childish but you know what it made me fee a lot better knowing that sh*t was out of his room.
Whatever you ended up doing, just make sure it doesnt get back to you. Thoes pictures probably would, because she would know who took them and who had the only copies, shed also know you had access to them and she knows you dont like her. Just be careful with whatever you do do and dont anything that could get you in serious trouble (nothing illegal)
also you better make sure it is worth it because if you boy finds out it could be the end of you guys. Id just make sure it is worth it and if it is then go for it.

Lilypad

replied on October 16th, 2005

Extremely eHealthy

I wanted to fu*%!Ng homicide the ass who knowingly gave me herpes but instead I directed my aggression at the gym and lost 30 lbs which really helped my self esteem. Years later I am glad I didnt give in to all the psycho things I wanted to do to him. I believe in karma- what goes around comes around. I heard 2 years later that he got hiv. Sounds like hes been punished to me.

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