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Q: Is It All In the Mind?

asked by: xandibits on August 11th, 2005

New User

Hi im new here!

Okay here it goes! I was about to leave taiwan to paris, and then me and my boyfriend decided to spend the night together, and it get whacked! He fingered me but he's not naked, and the after that he said that he want to take a shower, but before that he claimed that his abdomen is aching I guess most of the guys have that kind of feelin if they didnt cum or ejaculate, anyways after 15 min he went off the shower and did it again to me, im afraid that he might did something in the shower (ejacualate I guess) and if that what he did we'r in big trouble because i've read from previous post that sperm can live outside, so im worried that there might be some sperm left in his finger that can make me pregnant :(.... 2 days before I left I had discharges "dark brownish color" I used to have that kind of discharge before my perio, so I thought that I will be haveing my period and then when I arrive here in paris I noticed that it stopped, after a while I had my period last june w/c is normal heavy flow, and then just this month aug. I noticed that I didnt had my period last july! Upto now!! I dont know if it is because im irregular or something, im just so worried about it!.... This wasn't the 1st time that I had skipped months, ive been irregular for 4 years now... And before I have my period I usually wake up in the morning feeling like to throw up or after meals I throw up but I never hated any food, cramps, nausea,breast sore, I have mood swings but my mood swing today is so whacked! Im easily irritated and pissed!!! Im feelin it all for 3 days..I dont know if these are the indications that im pregnant or its just my irregular cycle or im just emotionally stress... I dont know plese give me an answer on this..Need help

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christa33us

replied on August 11th, 2005

Experienced User

Truly just sounds like emotional stress of thinking you might be pregnant. And it could be also the fact you haven't been regular for awhile.
You said he went into the shower and ejaculated then came out and fingered you?? Right?? If that's the case then i'm sure it went off into the shower, which means it was washed away so to speak.

bleedeliciouscandy

replied on August 11th, 2005

New User

Yes It Is All In Your Mind

To be honest with you, there is little to no chance you could become pregnant from something like that. First off you have to have intercourse to become pregnant, and then whatever little amount of sperm was left on his finger would have to survive the incredible journey to your egg, which may or may not have even been ready to be fertilized. Alot of people will just tell you that you can get pregnant from things such as this, when in actuality, there is a about a one percent chance you actually could. So if your period is more than two-three weeks late, then get a home pregnancy test and stop worrying!

xandibits

replied on August 12th, 2005

New User

Thanks

Thanks for the replies.. Yah he went to tha bathroom he said that he want to take a shower/deep in th bathtub..I dont know I just hope that he washed his hand before he touch me because im not ready and that my reason why I dont eant to have an intercourse w/ him because of the anxiety that I had ecperience from my ex-bf...Yet anyways maybe im just stressing things out, because before I had experience such intense anxiety about it because I had unprotected sex w/ my ex bf before but that was 3 or 4 years ago and I luckily I didnt get pregnant, I had all the signs not knowing that I am just making things worst for the both of us and we are both freaking out!!!.. Since then my period became whacked, breast sore, I vomit,mood swings,i have cramps most of the signs of pregnancy etc...Thanks really appreciated...I cant tell anyone about this... And by the way when I had my period last june I had the same symptom as always, I want to relax ang make believe that it isnt but I dont know.. Thanks anyways..

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