I know that this is hard to hear but the reason that is seems like you cant live without him and his feelings were so strong one moment and then off then next is because your young. I mean when I was 15 I was in the same exact situation. I loved this boy more then anything and he loved me and then one night he just called and said it was over. I mean it sucks but it happens. Teenage boys are really hormonal and as hard as it is its best for you to know that it is probably over. Your young and you will find someone new. But after hearing this I would really advice you from getting pregnant because a baby will not make your relationship better. It will break it. Having a baby is tough enough on a healthy relationship among adults let alone teenagers. I wish you luck and am telling you that you will find someone else.. Dont put up with his crap. You have so much time to find someone who will treat you like a princess. It is very rare that we find who we are going to be with for the rest of our lives when we are 15. This is nothing against you, I am just telling you from my personal experiance. Also you should date around. 15 is your time to get out there and date, have fun, go to parties, live it up. Once your married thats over. By dating you can take all the good qualities in boys you meet along the way to know what you want in a husband. I believe no relationship is a waste of time, you learn from every relationship you are in. My advice is to move on, and appreciate what you two had. Dont let it get bad, talk to him and tell him your concerns and ask him. .. And hey its like they say let him go and if it comes back it was meant to be.

Thanks for the advice! See the thing is..We've broken up twice along the way & we always ended up back together. I've told him before that maybe we should just take a break & see what happens..He always refuses to. He's been there for me through a lot of the hardest time of my life so far..I know i'm only 15 but I really think him & I are meant to be. Everything seems to fit together..Like god sent him to me & maybe this is just a test to see how things will work out. I want to stick with him..But I don't really even know anymore..He used to treat me sooo well!! Like I was the best thing on this earth..I don't know what happened! I understand that he's going through a lot in his life, I don't think he understands that i'm here for him..And I always will be. I also got a voicemail the other night from some girl saying she's having sex with my boyfriend and this n that..Then a few mins. Later he called..So I don't know if it was just a condience (sp?) or if he really is sleeping with another girl. He says he's not and he's even broke down and cried to show me that..With everything else going on I want to trust him but then again I don't know what to believe. I know there's always those people that try to mess up every relationship, so who knows. Also his temper..I don't have the greatest temper either but when he gets mad he yells, then feels bad about it later. He hasn't been doing that as much as he did but he still does every once in awhile..And last night he was acting really weird when I was talking to him omgsh it was freaking me out. I mean he's not the type to do drugs or drink alchol soo maybe it was because he was around his friends..Idk..He say's i'm his number 1 priority and he would do anything for me but who knows what's going on with him. Thanks a lot for the advice though..You seem like one of the few people that care on here & the pregnancy board!

I totally care because I have been there. And you know what I married the guy I started to date when I was 16, I mean it does happen. But I also know that I broke it off with my boyfriend (then husband ) for a summer because he was not treating me like I deserved to be treated. You know what happened during that summer, I had the time of my life with my friends, I went to concerts and met all sorts of new people. By the end of the summer I had dated other guys and I realized how much my boy had ment to me. He realized the same and we got back together 3 months later. Ever since hes treated me great and we were married last august. Sometimes you just have to clear your heads and be apart for a while. This was really important to us and I believe that it was the best thing we ever did. Just my experiance (oh and by the way this was a different guy then the one who broke it off with me one day)


good luck girl, things have a way of working themselves out.

Just my honest opinion here, but it sounds like he is telling you everything that you want to hear. If he was genuine about you being his number one prority, then he would back that statement with actions. People will tell you a whole lot of stuff, but its what he isnt saying that is sometimes more important. I'd really confront him about that whole cheating thing too, sounds like that may be a possibility.

No matter what happens though good luck to you!!!!

Guys are like that when u show them that u love them too much, just back of for a while and he will come running to u. I do that to my bf and it always work. Good luck.

I have this girlfriend right but shes being really horrible to me, she's saying stuff like I dont care about her anymore which I do and I have shown it but theres this other guy involved and shes saying that he cares about her more than I do and its getting me really worried that smthing might happen between these two can someone please help me and give me som advice on what to do?