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Q: Please Read Me!!!!

asked by: ThatGurlAj on November 23rd, 2003

New User

Ok this is a really long story, but I really need help.Ok it all started when I got pregnant which was about ummm about 37 weeks ago.I'm 17 and of course 37 weeks pregnant.My baby's father is 18.The night I got pregnant I had been drinking a lot and I know I shouldn't have been drinking.Well it was my brother and his two friends.Friend number his name is rob and friend number two his name is d.Well rob and I were drinking,d, my brother and rob were getting high, I was not.I was just chillin on the couch.Well as the night progressed I got really drunk.Well I ended up having sex Embarassed

with d.We didn't use protection I was so out of it I really don't remember anything.When I asked him what he remembers he claims he can't which I refuse to believe.All he was doing was smoking, and smoking and drinking affects you totally different.I read on a website that if you are intoxicated you can't give consent to sex and it is legally called date rape.I was very shocked when I seen this.The way I feel I don't want the daddy around.I mean I was violated and very disrespected.I mean he seen that I was drunk and should of been like naw i'm not gonna do that.My brother and him have been friends for so long and never in a million years did I think he would do something like that to me.I don't want him around at all. Sad

the way I feel I don't want to not like my baby because of who his father is.I really feel bad because i've thought about giving him up for adoption because everyday I have to look at my baby and see his father 4 the rest of my life and I hate it so much Crying or Very sad

I really need advice please if u have any please email@ bodaciousaj04@aol.Com thanks ~aj~

Replies(4)

pink_lips_04

replied on November 23rd, 2003

New User

Man...thats a Lot to Think About..

Well, ya he should of backed off and said maybe another time or something like that. But then again maybe you should of too since you know he was smoking and drinking he was a little more messed up then you were. But, you can't down on your baby because of who his father is just remember that baby is a part of you and will always be a part of you for the rest of your life. And with that date rape thing I guess it's up to you how you want to take how that night went..Just do what ever your heart tells you to do. Maybe you and the baby's daddy can work stuff out and get together later on in the pregnancy. Just keep us updated to see if the progess gets better.

Mesmerizeu15

replied on November 24th, 2003

Extremely eHealthy

I think that you need someone to hugg you *giving you a hug*...I dont know what to tell you, but I know where you are you coming from. Well I understand what you mean...Men are hard subjects, but this one ended in pregnancy, the lost of friendship, and then the lost of our self respect and trust I am sure. This is hard, I know that. Do you think that you are mature enough to handle a baby? Do you believe in adoption though? Please deary, think about the life of your child and think about your life. Being a mom is a great experience but you baby deserves the best too!!

Loads of love,
stacie

raverbaby

replied on November 24th, 2003

Experienced User

Don't Feel Bad!!

My daughters dad and me r not together because he lied and didn't tell me the condom broke till 2 hours later. Plus he had another girl pregnant at the same time. Whatever u do don't blame u're son for what his father did. Not saying u would just some people do that in this weird world. I look at my daughter at times and cry because it does hurt and like u said his looks will never leave. But u will have one cute child to love and to be loved feels great from a child thats your own. Good luck on u're decison!!! If anything need someone to chat to let me know.

Mesmerizeu15

replied on November 24th, 2003

Extremely eHealthy

I agree with you raverbaby because I hate it when people do that to their children that is just wrong, I should have added that. Where do you live in pa?

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