My husband and I have been married for 2 years. Pretty much the whole time since we've gotten married, we've been fighting. Sure, we have good times, but the bad always out way the good. I've asked him to do little things for me. Like write me notes and leave me a cute message on the phone. He's in the military. When he's gone out with his friends, i've called him and I was crying saying I needed to talk to him. He would tell me i'm ruining his night and i'm embarrassing him. He didn't even get up from the table. He sat there and told me that right infront of his friends. He's physical sometimes. I feel like he expects me to do whatever it is he wants and I get nothing in return. If you really love someone, why is it so hard to do the small things? If he really cares about me, wouldn't he do those things? We have 2 kids. My oldest isn't his. I've been married 2 times. I'm afraid that I won't be able to find love being married twice with two kids from two different guys. I'm still young, 25. I'm so confused. He's promised me he'd change, but still hasn't. So now i'm living with my mom and dad and my two girls. Someone please help me!!!