How the heck did he pop it during oral sex?????? I dont know how thats possible. You must be penetrated to lose virginity.

I know it sounds odd but he was fingering me really hard and streching me out and I started bleeding and it happened 2 more times after that, and then from there on whenever he fingers me I dont bleed anymore and he told me that he "popped my cherry"...

Nope still a virgin. My husband agrees too lol

Lol thanks...My virginity means a lil something to me, its kind of just a religious thing I guess...But I still feel bad sometimes about the other things I do such as oral sex...

Just tellthat boy to keep it in his pants lol, how old are you? Just curious, not going to lecture :)

Im 16 and so is he, im going to be a junior in high school this coming year...I have done certain things w/ other guys, but it was always me pleasing them because I never really wanted it. So hes basically the first guy thats given me oral pleasure and the first guy I have been comfortable around...

Well its about time a guy did something for you lol, I dont think oral is a bad or dirty thing to do as long as you know he is clean, sometimes its better than sex!!!!!!!!

He knows hes clean...We were about to have sex and he has many times before w/ his past 2 girlfriends and he already knew he was clean but he went and got tested just to make me happy...

Well thats good, just be sure to use bc when you decide to go for it

Yea I know...Use a condom...I definately wouldnt have sex w/out one...And I trust my boyfriend a lot so its all good. Thank you for your help, I appreciate it!

No prob, good luck

im actually 16 also, and im feeling ur pain, like i let my boyfriend finger me, and ive never done anything before with any other guy, he was my first kiss, but he has had sex with his past 2 girl friends and i want to have sex with him because we are so comfortable with talking about it, and im waiting to get on birth control, but it would b the fingering part that would have popped it, not the oral, i dont think that possible =)

hey well i just had sex a day ago n i think my boyfriend popped my cherry i have been bleeding for a day now from down there is this normal?