I have the same problem. Im pregnant and I still cant even have an orgasm...Not saying pregnancy should make me have an orgasm....Ive been sexually active since I was 12 and right now I am 17 and my bf is 21. The only time I have an orgasm is when I masterbate too....It sux! I know..We try and try but nothing ever works.

Yep....You are definately not alone. I can agree with both of you. I have tons of fun on my own but it's like when a male steps into the room....Nope - nothing! I obviously have no suggestions because I have never had an orgasm while intimate with another. You are not alone!

I'm not sure if I get an orgasm or not. Sometimes, my guy will finger me and suddenly i'll breathe out a couple of times, hold my breath, and push down, and then it'll subside and I feel really intimate with him afterwards. I also sweat on my sides and between the legs. Is that an orgasm? I can't say I know much about masterbation, though. I don't like when he touches my clit or folds - is that normal?? Thx!

hi rae how you doin??

Hows that baby.??

I think you girls may not be able to relax around them, I know I used to have a problem with it too. But I know with me I had to be with my husband--who I knew for awhile and who I could relax around. Then all I got was oral or clitorial stimulation. With my second husband...Let me tell you...Quite different all together. I am very difficult to bring to orgasm anyway--without relaxation, without concentration forget it. Although I knew how to take care of myself from a very young age.

When it was a one night stand or new person---no way not ever no kinda way. I couldnt relax, not with a stranger, or someone I couldnt feel comfortable with.

I agree with fatfamily02 you are never gonig to have an orgasm if you don't relax!!! And trust me you will all know when you do orgasm it's wonderful!! I have been with 4 guys and only 1 out of the 4 (my current bf) have made me orgasm, and my conculsion is that those other guys made me feel so uncomfotable I was to worried about how I look and stuff to them that I didnt relax! Find a guy you can actually be yourself in front of and not care about how you look, then you will have the most fun

This is my problem to, I havent ever had an orgasm in my life, I am 15 and I have been active since I was 14 its ridiculous

not to be a health forum or to sound like your mother but, I think your a bit to young to be having sex! Really I say stay away from it for a little bit longer. Sex can come with many consequences. You dont want to be pregnant by the time your 16 do you?? Plus it's very emotional; there are a ton of guys out there that will just use you than leave you, and you'll be left with the mental pain. I dont want you to go through the heartbreak this early.

You know what,
i sort of agree with glamour girl

i lost my virginity when i'd only just turned 14 with a guy who was 14.

Let me tell you, as soon as we had sex, he was gone in a flash, I never saw him again.

But then when I was 15 I met my first love, and I waited quite awhile before I did anything with him, which made it all the more better!!!!!!

I kinda dont agree. Ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years an im only 15 and we have sex. We have fun and he isnt using me, you just have to find the right person. You cant judge someone on there age, love is what you make it. Its not dependalbe on how old you are.