Hi there young mum, very sorry to hear that you miscarried. Let life take its course as everything happens for a reason, I hope that doesnt sound too pompous? I had a miscarraige of one of my twins when I was 23 and had a 4 yo girl. I went on to give birth to an amazing little girl who is now 16. But everyday I think of my little boy, and I am now 40!!! I quietly 'celebrate ' the 'birth' of my lost one every year but im not sure if anyone would understand my doing this. After I had my girl and resumed periods I went thru hell thinking every month that I was pregnant , followed by the inevitable blood and pain of my period which in my head became like reliving the miscarraige every single month and I asked the doctor to sterilize me. I know that it was a little extreme but I knew in my heart that if there were no eggs getting thru that there could be no possibilities of getting pregnant and therefore no possibility of miscarrying!!! Of course I gave the doc a different reason for the op. Now I am married again and nothing would give me more pleasure than to give birth to my hubbys babby but its never going to happen!.. Sorry for going on I guess I dont get to talk about it very often.. As im sure you will find.. I hope that you have the family that you long for just give yourself time it lessens the pain, but how can you forget? You never should...Hugs

Welcome my dear and sorry to hear 'bout the loss of your baby. I also had a miscarriage last dec and just like you..... Never thought it will happen to me. Young and active but.... It can happen to anyone. Hope you will enjoy this forum. Members here are nice and helpful.

Sorry to hear about your loss. I couldn't imagine that happening to me either, so I know it was a shock for you. Are you trying to conceive again? Again, sorry to hear about your loss.

Im so sorry my /f is xpecting thats a big scer I dont thank I could servive if that happend to us that is so bad (im sorry) so are you okey know did you get some kinda help keep in tuch