A week or two ago I was messing around with my boyfriend and we werent having sex but he was down there without a condom on and he pulled away and came in his hand! I got my period the next day and it was normal and nothing really felt weird until lately I have been having these flash headaches and cold sweats and unusual eating patterns. I may be overreacting because there are many explanations for everything. I havent been getting much sleep lately and im nervous for school to start, also it was the first time I had done anything like that and I had never had sex before so im not sure if its even possible. I am just very concerned and am looking for guidance!
Thank you to anybody who can help!
Okay thats a little harsh. Yes, if you're not trying to get pregnant you should use protection, but these boards are here for people to ask for help. And when they do they get b*tched at. I do agree though that no one but yourself knows your body. If you had your period the next day then I doubt you're pregnant but take a test to ease your mind and next time be smart and use protection.
You cant tell half the girls on here if they're pregnant or not, you dont know them nor do you know their body. That's why I dont understand why these girls ask, your going to get people saying you and saying you arent, but in the end you have to wait it out anyways.
You are not smarter then all these other teens here and not much older then some! And yet here you are a teen mother only 16 putting others down......Looks like something failed you too! Birth control is not always 100% and @ 16 you should still be in school and we all know sex can lead to babies and yet you are pregnant! So don't be putting everyone else down! They are here for help just because you think you got your !**@! together gives you no right to put down other teens for being here....If you can't be respectful and you are know everything and don't need advice maybe you should stay out of teen forums because they need support!!!
And yes I am 16 and going to be a teen mom, I know from experience that you need to be careful, you stupid b*tch.
I'm not jumping on these girl's back for nothing you !**@!, im going through it, trying to prevent what happend to me.
And even though it's none of your business.
I can afford a child, I have my own car and my license and am taking ged classes, i'm a few teen mom's that actually try. My kid isn't going to end up in some foster home and my parents are going to be raising it. You have to give up everything to raise a child, i'm one of the few people that actually know and realize this, if you want to try to make a point, go to the topics to where girls are trying to get pregnant.
I might be only 16, but at least I was responsible enough to use protection, I used my head. And even though I used protection, look what happend? Even though i'll love my child with everything I have, I still got sh*t on.
I'm going to be a teen mom, I have a job and I make great money, i'll be able to afford a child when I can no longer work, i'll have my ged which is as good as a highschool diploma, I have a car and dont rely on people to do the work for me. I'd say i'll be one hell of a parent.
I'm not judging anyone or trying to jump on anybody's back to diss them, i'm telling them to simply not do something if you havent had experience in it, especially if your not responsible enough to use protection, if girls were more careful, there wouldnt be posts like this, but they brought it upon themselves and as I said, i'm going through it which gives me a right to pass out useful advice.
No one listens when they are being put down, I was a teen mom too and I know that me telling these girls that they are stupid is not going to stop them, they will do what they want, so we should just answer there questions respectfully. I know I dint listen when I was that age, but it would have been nice just to talk to someone instead of being yelled at. I know it is frustrating watching young girls get preg when you know how hard life will be for them, but whats the point of being mean? It does not work!!
But it does not help to be soo harsh, it makes them feel like sh$t, I know people did it to me and it did no good, they need help, im sure they know they are in a bad situation they probably here it all day, so they come here for someone helpfull to talk to, maybe share your story with them instead of telling them they dug there own grave
Sweetie having a ged isnt !**@! these days. Even having a good college degree is hard to land a decent job with. Children are very expensive more then I think you know. You should try to at least finish school ive seen girls do it....But still you have no right bashing others when you arent in a great position your self. No one listens to yelling and negativity and people that put down and got on girls like this is what drives them to sex lives because they get no help.
You arent even old enough to have your own house or even vote yet you have no right talking to these girls like that. Leave the posts for people who want to help
I'm not old enough to have my own house? I turn 17 in a month, it's legal where i'm from to move out when you're 17.
I never said a ged was as good as a college degree, it's as good as a highschool diploma, get your !**@! facts straight.
I have a good job that i've had since I was 14, I make good money. I don't have to work, if I don't have too because I can already support my child, I know me better than you do, you don't know how I live, my lifestyle or how much money I have or make, you know what I tell you.
I know how expensive children are, you would not know even if I didn't.
I might not tell the girls what they want to hear, but all my answers are out of honesty and that's something I won't and will never hide because some girl wants me too.
If you don't like what I have to say then just don't read it hunny, simple as that.
You can't always expect a positive answer from everybody, i'm not going to feel sympathy for these girls when they brought the problem upon themselves, girls ask if they're pregnant and it's like, how the !**@! do I know? You didnt use a condom while you had sex, your fault, your problem.
I may be a teen mom but at least I used my common sense, I tried to prevent pregnancy, I was on birth control for 6 months before I got pregnant. Who's fault is that? Not mine.
Oh sweetie one thing you may have learned if you stayed in school was how to read......I said a ged isnt worth anything these days and either is a cillege degree......Of course I know how much children are these days I have 2 of them....And please I work for the government and make extremely good money so you can stop your nonsense! My point is teens arent coming here to be treated like that obviously you havent matured yet yourself and I hope you grow up and treat your child with more respect....Like another woman said girls arent going to listen when you speak that to them....
You are right I dont know you nor do you know these girls....But I highly doubt you have it as good as you claim....You are in for a big suprise get back to the board in a few moths and let us know how you are!
Good luck ;)
Seems to me ..Everyone has gotten off the point of topic.. This girl came here asking for help.. Looking for advice from the people here.. The ones who are supposed to be setting a good example of the forum.. But obviously that isn't the case.. Rather then helping this girl.. It's come to argueing about petty stuff...The negativity is ridiculous.. Offering advice and b*tching are 2 seperate things.. When the girls come here.. They need help.. They need someone who is going to give them an honest opinion..Sure there are alot of posts each day about young girls saying "i had sex.. Could I be pregnant" yes ..You could.. Read some of the "sticky notes" at the top of the forum..For more information.. And go get a hpt.. Sharing our stories with these girls.. Offers them the insite of how hard it is to be pregnant at a young age...And how hard it is to raise a child.. But.. Being so harsh about things isn't going to teach them anything except that no one cares what happens to them.. And I personally don't want to make them feel that way.. Were all entitled to post our opinions.. But for the sake of these girls.. And the unwanted argueing can we atleast just post the advice and leave the negativity and assumptions out of it. Thanks
You have such a great mouth for a person thats going to be a mother!!Thats really attractive and i'm sure its appropriate for your children.......Since your mom is a social worker she should tell you you dont sound like you are very mature and you need should be doing other constructive things instead of cussing people out and being rude .....Those people dont turn to be very good moms!!!
Um I suggest you to go to the doctor and find out to see what is going on and stuff liek that. Don't be afriad to ask anyone on here. Daciallynn... Please take your anger somewhere else because you were very harsh when someone was asking for an advice.
The other was right.. A college degree or a highschool/ged education isn't worth it these days because there are several groups of people is taking over the business now these days and theres no use of getting them anyway. So chill out sometimes
Thank you sweetlil....Some young girls just dont get it and that is why our public assistence is getting ruined......Dropping out of school and getting a g.E.D. These days isnt nothing....Heck you can have a masters and still be out of a job I know plenty of people that have graduated from very great colleges and came home to find nothing...........Unfortunetly you can always find a job in vegas making good money with no education lol
anyway my point was only that these girls are here for help and the language on this board is terrible especially to the teens and only makes the person speaking look stupid.....
I haven't dropped out of school, i'm still out for the summer.
G.E.D is a choice I have when I have my baby, I don't believe leaving my baby with a babysitter, even though school is important, no one would treat my child as good as I would.
If you can't handle my attitude then don't read what I have to say, i'm going to reply to comments and there's nothing you can do about it but b*tch, your b*tching doesn't affect me, mine shouldn't affect you neither.
You don't know me, i'm just a girl on the internet that posts in a teen pregnancy forum. Do something about it?
A g.E.D isn't a highschool diploma, but it's better than dropping out of school and quitting completly just to raise my baby.
Gurl, I was several month pregnant when I was still in high school but was a senior at that time though. I didn't manage to quit.. I was planning to but I missed 4 weeks of school due to my morning sickness but still manage to graduate ... Um now its kinda hard to see if you wanna go to college or not.
G-e-d is for everyone who wants it and needed it for a job... Most of the time.. Doesn't needed it though. I am having a hard time looking for a job because most of them isn't hiring or need a advance "education" like college degree. Its stupid now and then but yes we all have to put up with the stupidity of education that doesn't do anything for us. Um im not b*tching at your or anything... I just dont want you to be harsh on these young girls.. Thats all im asking