I only came to buspirone because I couldn't take the ssris. They worked, but the side effects (mostly sexual) were too much. I've been on buspirone about 4 weeks. I don't really know if it's helping. I'm definitely moody and depressed. Sometimes even sullen and bitter, which I am usually not. Generally melancholy all the time. Most of all though, every night it takes hours to get to sleep - my mind races about catastrophic events, etc. Then in the morning, I can barely get out of bed, and all day my body feels like I just ran a 26 mile marathon. All day, every day, my body feels physically ravaged - it's horrible. Muscle aches, extreme fatigue, drowsiness. Slurring words, a little dizziness, some headaches.
So, I would say this medication is making life worse, not better. My doc and my research said it was effective for fewer people, less often prescribed. I'm going to give it another month or so and if things aren't better i'll just have to go without.