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Ok im 15 with a pregnant 14 year old pregnant girlfriend. I need help making the decision of letting my girlfriend live with me or let her live with her abusive oarents. They beat her hit her and is trying to kill my baby thats inside my girlfriend. I know most of you think people that have sex at young age but I really need your help to making the dicision abortion so the abuse will stop or live with me which I can then keep the baby and stop the abuse. Please help me.


Last edited by Prince Wyte on August 7th, 2005 11:18 AM; edited 1 time in total
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replied July 31st, 2005
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No One Can Make That Decision For You.
No one can make that decision for you. But let me give you some things to think about. Who do you live with and do they agree with letting your gf live with you, it is unfortunate that your gf lives in that environment and even if you do not have the child maybe someone should help your gf get out of that living environment anyways... I would start by mybe telling your parents what is going on with her or an adult and ask what they can do to help call social services. As far as having sex while you are young the deed is done now-- next time just make sure to use a condom. Are you ready to be a daddy now and if not is she ready to have an abortion-- who would pay for it-- who would pay for the baby these are all things that you need to think about. I know it is difficult being your age with these things on your mind but you did a grown up thing now you have grown up descision good luck!
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replied July 31st, 2005
Yea Good Point
You make a good point but yes I live with my parents and they dont care if she lives with me. Also im prepared to be a daddy and she is aswell prepared to be a mom. Also again no abortion will happen. The condom thing lol that was the whole point we wanted a child so I used no condom. If that doesnt about answer everything tell me what I left out.
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replied August 3rd, 2005
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You didnt use a condom because you wanted a baby at 15 and 14 so you could live with your parents...Yeah real responsible sounds like your going to be great parents.
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replied August 7th, 2005
Thnx
One thing wrong is I dont care if you dont like I got a 14 year old preg causelets see oh wait yea she wanted to get pregnant. Duhhhhhhhhh so thnx for your stupid comment. :)
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replied August 7th, 2005
Btw
By the way thanks staylor you ve been lots of help hope you have a good life bro ;)
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replied August 7th, 2005
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Prince, Im Confused
Ok prince, im confused in one post you said you are 17 with a 2 year old and live with yor gf and now you are saying you are 15 with a pg gf and she lives with her parents, witch one is it???? Is any of it true????
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replied August 7th, 2005
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Ok and now I see you are also 16 in some of the post??????? Just wondering lol
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replied August 8th, 2005
Huh?
There is hmmmmm I dunno thats not me posting that im really 15 with a 14 yr old gf. Sware!
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replied August 8th, 2005
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Prince wyte
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me too
posted: 07-31-05 8:54pm

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i live in indiana wife my gf we currently have one 2 yr old son but im afraid your might not like me since im 17 with a 15 yr old girlfriend with a son cause you might not like young couples as friends but if you wanna become friends reply me.




hmm well here is a post where you say that.
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replied August 8th, 2005
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Prince wyte
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parents parents
posted: 08-01-05 12:54am

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well im 16 and got my 14 year old girlfriend pregnant. Parents they are hard to tell but eventually just tell them if your parents are the loving ones they will understand and help you if not your screwed.


and another one
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replied August 8th, 2005
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Prince wyte
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I understand completely
posted: 08-01-05 12:58am

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heh I understand im 16 and got a 14 yr old pregnant girlfriend. If your parents are the ones to back you up your ok but if they arent then tell them how much so you wanted this baby and how youd raise it and how much you love the man that help make your baby and they should help.

and one more.
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replied August 10th, 2005
Info Plz...
Hi...Me and my girl had sex and I came 3 times, but the first 2 times I had a condum, the 3rd time, I didnt. Her period just went off dis morning and I was wondering if she can get pregnant?
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