Whn I first did this with my wife I discovered if she beared down like going to the bathroom it allowed easier access. Make sure yr guy doesnt rush or try and push in too soon. It will cause you some pain if you arent prepared. Also use ky jelly or some other type of lube to help in yr bf entry. The most important thing is to have yr bf go slow so you have chnce to receive him without pain. Take care and goood luck.

If you have access to an aduly bookstore where they sell creams and lotions, you might want to try "anal eaze". It's a cream that you apply to your ass . It will relax the muscles temporary for easy entry..Lol

You may want to please your b/f by doing whatever he wants but don't forget about your own health. From a medical stand point you need to be very careful especially if he is big. Anal sex can cause stretching or tearing of the anus muscle that can make it harder to close those muscles later in life (not a good thing), not to mention cause you pain and increase chances of hemeroids in the soft tissue. It can also cause greater risk for cancer in that area. You need to weigh the pros and cons. Don't be bullied or coerced if you really aren't sure about it. If he loves you he will understand. All in all if you do decide to do it make sure and use lots of lubrication. Astroglide is great. Good luck.

Thanks guys for the advice, and I know the risks I am taking but I would do anything for him.

My husband is large, I have found if I add a vibrator to the equation and get myself very turned on and relaxed the anal sex is very pleasurable. Also ky jelly makes a new warming lube,,, very nice!

Want2bemom
thanks for your message. I thought I was the only person who was aware of the health risks of anal sex. I personally would not put my health at risk for anyone, no matter how much I loved him.
Maybe you should ask him if he wants a big fat dildo in his ass. If he says that he would do it to please you then it would be o.K to do the same for him.
Just my opinion though. But yeah, I don't do that, but lube would probably help.

Regardless of how much you care about someone putting your health at risk is not worth it, will he be willing to do the same for you. I highly doubt it, your going to end up with manymedical problems, frankly I find that to be disgusting, your ass is an exit not an entrance.

I find that spooning makes entry alot easier. Your anus isnt pulled apart, so it makes it looser to enter.

Hey,

make him use tons of lube and so slowly at it. Its helps me better when a guy stickes a finger in. It feels really good. If it hurts too much make him stop and do something else

alison xoxo

how shall i go for the sex with my wife

why is there a baby on the bottom of the anul sex talk? so yeah, what the fudge cake?@?@??!?!?!?

The first time i did it by boyfriend used lube abd it hurt like hell.I couldnt go for more than a minute. We decided to take things slowly.like every now and then after intercose we'd do anul for a minute then stop.The 5th time i did it with him i drank vodka and i loved it.the 6th time i was completey sober and it felt as great as intercose.Just take your time with your boyfriend and becareful.the discomfort should lessen eventully if you continue doing it.

honestly, get drunk(or buzzed),(I'm serious) youll be more relaxed. Use a finger first. it's a muscle, it has to be stretched slowly to prevent trauma. Some lubes can burn, use saliva.and most importantly, its very time consuming so tell him to be patient is may take 15-20 minutes to get you ready.When your used to it, he can gradualy pick up the pace, Also bear down.

forgot to add, lay on your left side(This has to do with your anatomy) and if he's kissing you it's a great distracter because the more you think about it, the more it will hurt. Thjis way, your mind is somewhere else.

you want bumming with a brass cactus

I don't know. Me to tried my wife more than 10 times but she says she feels pain when i enter my finger. I used much salvia but she is still same. I think i will never be able to convince her. I die for it.

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