Can Only Orgasm In My Sleep Posted: 07-29-05 21:52pm
Hi,
I have a big problem..It is this I am
in my early thirty's and have never
orgasmed from my man or from myself...But
when I sleep I just have 1 thought in my
dream and I can orgasim so intense from
either my clitorus or inside me or even
both I wake up on the brink and touch
myself till I explode....But in reality in
waking hours I cant bring my self to that
point...As something must be wrong with my
clit as it feels nothing like hardly a
thing when I touch it even when im
excited....I have had a few children and
put on a few extra pounds..Is this why
theres no sensation there...People say try
all these things but if my cliterous has
little sensation what can I do....Help its
depressing me as I am a sensitive caring
woman who enjoys her man ...And can only
come in my sleep
:(
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Tylanas
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Posted: 08-28-05 21:34pm
Well... In your dreams you have no
control over your body or your feelings,
so you are completely relaxed. That's the
most important thing when it comes to
orgasming; you have to let go of
everything. Because of the dreaming
state, you are able to let go. So, you
need to learn to let go when you're
awake.
Try this in the bathtub, or in your bed,
alone. :) just feel yourself. You know
how to make yourself orgasm, you do it to
yourself as you're coming out of the
dream! Give yourself a good hour, and
just relax the whole time. Bubble bath,
incense, whatever. Think of the dreams
that make you orgasm, think of the
feelings you have in those dreams, of how
full your body feels, etc. For you, the
bed might work best, because you're
orgasming in your dreams. You need to get
yourself into the relaxed state you have
in your dreams.
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kazza15
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jun 2008 Posts: 1
Orgasm in your sleep Posted: 06-11-08 03:14am
Dear hopelessclarity,
Even though it is 3 years since you put
your post out, I am writing this reply, in
case you happen to read it and also for
others who might want consolation.
I am exactly the same as you, never been
able to orgasm in the conscious state, yet
have had great ones during sleep just
before waking in the morning.
You must know this; the so called experts
still do not know everything about the
female orgasm, to them it is still a
mystery organ which remains the topic of
many unanswered questions such as yours.
So, don't listen to them when they make
you feel like it is your fault, it could
be just the way we are made and the sooner
the experts accept this the better. I have
tried everything and know I do not have a
problem with relaxation or
broadmindedness. Like you, I find the
clitoris to have no or at best very little
sensation, it's like the wiring has been
cut.
I am grateful that I have my sleep
orgasims as I believe they are more
intense than the awake ones. Ha ha. Enjoy
my friends, enjoy - our sisters may never
know what the cake tastes like with the
icing on top!!!
