Joined: 27 Jul 2005 Posts: 14 Location: england, uk
Food Addiction?? Posted: 07-27-05 15:20pm
Hi im kinda confused and I was wondering
if there was such thing as a food
addiction? Im 15 about 5"6 and im not
sure of my weight (2 scared to step on the
scales, I feel so fat!) I wouldnt say im
overweight at the moment but if I carry on
with eating so much I will end up being
just that. The thing is I have depression
and I tend to comfort eat but I cant
actually stop myself! Im not even hungry
but I just carry on then I feel sick. Im
not bulimic though, I am actually scared
of being sick so I just gain pounds
because of this. I want to get to a gym
and try and be more healthy but I am so
tired at the moment I dont have the
energy. I have a social anxiety disorder
so im soo so scared of going places where
people look at me.. I feel so ugly, its
tearing me apart! I just want to be thin
:( please help me!
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vanessalouanne
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Posted: 07-27-05 16:01pm
Absolutely you can be addicted to food,
and it can be as deadly as drugs if it is
out of control. The reason you dont have
energy is because your not exercising.
Start small, take a walk, play tennis,
take the stairs instead of the elevator.
The more you exercise the more energy you
will get. Trust me I totally know about
comfort food because growing up I got the
habit from my mom. Food was used as a
device in my family. You got an a on
your paper lets go get ice cream, if your
good I will get you mcdonalds, ohh your
boyfriend broke up with you lets get you
some chocolate. It is really hard to
break that, but you can do it. I found
that what helped me was to not deprive
myself of the things I wanted but to eat
smaller portions or find alternates, ( a
frozen banana instead of an ice cream
cone, or pop corn instead of chips) weigh
watchers is a great thing to become
involved in because thats what they focus
on, eating everything just in smaller
portions. You can change the way you
look, but you are the only person who can
do it. Some people just do not
understand what its like to be addicted to
food because they dont have the problem.
My husband just doesnt get it, I mean he
thinks its just food but I know that it
can be so much more then that. None of
us are perfect but if you take it one step
at a time you can overcome it. Good luck
sweetie. But remember only you can
change yourself no one can make you lose
weight. Next time you want to veg out on
a big cheese burger just think is it worth
it? If I eat a sandwitch I will get just
as full and be eating half of the
calories. Just try not to let yourself
starve, eat lots of snacks (healthy ones)
because if you are starving you are
probably going to use bad judgement when
it come time to eat. Ive been there and
I totally know what you are going through.
Drink lots of water, avoid the soda and
start small. Good luck.
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damsel
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 May 2005 Posts: 69 Location: Melbourne, Australia
Beggings of An Eating Disorder Posted: 07-27-05 18:53pm
You really sound as though you have the
begginings of an eating disorder, maybe
not anorexia or bulimia, but you could
have compulsive overeating disorder, binge
eating disorder. Or a mixture of them, no
2 eating disorders are the same. The meer
fact that you use food in a way other than
for nutritional purposes suggests this.
You should definaltly talk to someone
about this, dont be too scared because if
you catch it early it will save you much
pain in the long run. Big hugs xoxo
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mshanson
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Nov 2004 Posts: 102 Location: California
Joining a Group Posted: 07-29-05 01:23am
You are not alone ~ there are soooo many
people, especially women, who have this
binge eating disorder. You may want to
join a support group of other overeaters
who can help you cope with your problems
in other ways besides using food. In
america we have an organization called oa
(overeaters anonymous) ~ it's for any kind
of eating disorder, anorexia & bulimia
too. I was a member for awhile & it
really helped me. You may have similar
groups in the uk. Look in the phone book
or use the internet.
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imblonde
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jan 2006 Posts: 2
Change Your Habbits Posted: 01-06-06 20:13pm
I think if you can focus on something else
than food, like cleaning your room or
doing something active, you can brake this
addiction.
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mshanson
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Nov 2004 Posts: 102 Location: California
Posted: 01-06-06 23:21pm
There's a great book i've been reading
called "eating mindfully". All about
changing your relationship to food by
thinking about how it helps your body
instead of abusing it. It has good
exercises for making peace with your body,
mind & spirit. Just an idea...