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Q: So Confussed Feeling Lonely

asked by: loneytearz on July 27th, 2005

Experienced User

:( I was with my babys father for almost 5 monts..(dec-april)...The end of feb. I noticed I didnt get my peirod...So I waited n then the end of march I took a preg test... It came back pos..I was extremly happy...Like more then ever...I had some one I loved to death n a baby on da way...But then everything changed..My babys father whos 21...Had turned around n told me he couldnt do this...N he needed time...This was 3 months ago im now 23 weeks...I talked to him 2 times after that n his words were ill give u the money to get rid of this thing...N it hurt...I love him to death still n cry fo him at night...Im gonna be 17 in aug...But I dont no wha to do...I want to talk to him but he has charges on me now..So I cant...I just want to tell him I love him n beable to have him in his sons life...At the begin. He was happy n then everything turned around I dont no what to do...If I should leave him be n let him come back or...Idk im so confussed id just like a lil advice or im me at thugish420babe thank u I appreacte this alot...~*~lonelytears~*~

Replies(3)

justacanadiangirl

replied on July 27th, 2005

Extremely eHealthy

I'm sorry for ur hurt hun, but I have to say, it doesn't sound like he's gonna come around to the idea of having a baby. All u can really do know is think, can u keep the baby? Or should u have it adopted? And if ur gonna keep it, then u need to have the funds to support the baby. If u can't support the child on ur own then ur going to need to make sure u can get child support from him. Good luck. I'm here to talk if u need to.

loneytearz

replied on July 27th, 2005

Experienced User

Yeaaa...Thanks fo the advice...I choose to keep him from the beginnen...I cant see haven to give a baby up thats grown inside me for 9 months..Its just hard but I apprecate it thank u very very much

vanessalouanne

replied on July 27th, 2005

Extremely eHealthy

Check out your local support agencys. You need to apply for .W.I.C and if need be get on welfare. Im not a big fan of this but whatever is needed to make sure the baby is safe and healthy. You need to for sure take this guy to court and get him to pay child support. Hey if he doesnt want to be a part of you and this baby's life then he doesnt deserve to be. Youll find someone who will adore you both and that will be better for both of you in the long run. Sounds like this guy is just a little boy himself. Best of luck to you, be strong for your baby and know that your probably to good for this guy anyways.

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