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Q: Need Advice - Oral Issues

asked by: squirrely on July 26th, 2005

New User

Hi, newbie here. I need some advice from the dudes.

I love my boyfriend and we have a wonderful sex life. But I just cannot bring myself to go down on him. I don't mind the smell (women aren't the only ones with a particular fragrance down south), but I do not like how he tastes most of the time. He is uncircumcised and the foreskin traps urine, semen, sweat, etc, making it extremely unpleasant. If he is fresh out of the shower, I will, but never any other time. I once surprised him by going down on him, and I got a nasty wake-up call: the head was still wet with urine and it about made me vomit.

I don't know how to tell him this is the reason I won't go down on him. I always make sure I am clean and fresh when he goes south on me.

Replies(3)

Granps

replied on July 26th, 2005

Experienced User

Squirrley

Simple......... Tell him what you are telling us. If the relationship is solid, then he should listen and respect your concerns, or no more head.
You indicated you keep yourself clean, so should he.
Good luck! :wink:

squirrely

replied on July 29th, 2005

New User

Thanks. I just don't want to kill the mood or anything. I think he has an inkling; he never asks for it anymore. I feel bad, but i'm afraid I will just blurt it out next time he wants me to, or I will give obvious signs i'm not having a good time. *sigh* what fun is that?

theman

replied on July 29th, 2005

Experienced User

As was previously said, if the relationship is strong enough then just tell him and it should be fine! He should understand. But remember, rarely does semen actually taste nice, so you do have to be prepared for a certain bad taste whenever you do anything like that.

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