Help Me.. :(

Honey, there is a good chance you're pregnant. My boobs started hurting right away. That was my first symptom. Stress could also be a factor in a missed period. I skipped the period before I got pregnant due to stress. You say they've been hurting for 3 days so wait another week and then take a test. The sharp pain in the vaginal area is also something I feel often. Good luck sweetie! Let us know how it goes!

Well, that sucks big time. Because there's no way I could keep it, and that will break my heart. :(

Oh, btw.. If it helps any the past three days when I woke up my boobs hurt not really bad or anything I could touch them.. They were just sore. Today I woke up and they didn't hurt at all and they're still not hurting.

Ladylegacy,

your ticker is absolutely fantastic!

Well hopefully you have nothing to worry about then. Just keep taking tests and see a doctor as soon as possible. Good luck sweetie!



Thanks kimmeh! My ticker is wrong though...I can't seem to get it right. I'm actually 16 weeks 2 days. I guess my docs due date doesn't match how far along he says I am. Haha.

I'm going to take a test on the 1st of august if nothing happens. Going to see a doctor though, will suck because that means i'll have to tell my parents. Not cool.

I just wanted to let you all know that we found out earlier today that i'm not pregnant, which is great.. Its too early for kids right now. But yeah, thanks for the opinions and such.

How about you open your effing eyes and ask questions before you assume something as stupid as that?

1. I use protection, alright dickhead?

2. I'd be forced, f-o-r-c-e-d by everyone in my family to kill it. As much as I begged, and cried they wouldn't have it. Unlucky maybe, but not selfish. Maybe I am underage, but don't tell me I would selfishly kill my own child. And if they did make me kill it, it'd be doing it a favor anyway, because its life would be nothing but pain living here. Because it wouldn't be mine, it would end up being someone else's.

Hey, just forget about what I just said. After sitting there I really felt bad about taking all that out on someone I don't even know. Its just, when I thought I was pregnant, you wouldn't believe the fighting and argueing I did with people. Everyone would've wanted me to abort it. And how can I have a child if it's going to keep my entire life's dreams from happening. Plus I have a boyfriend who has dreamt of making something of himself for so long, and I can't deprive him of that just for myself. As much as I would've wanted to keep it, I couldn't. I love him more than anything, and either way it would break my heart, and I just kept thinking.. "go ahead, give up. If you're pregnant, just do what everyone else wants. It'll make everything better." that's why I said thank god. Thank god I don't have to make that choice, because either way, it would've really broke me. And trust me, I will not let this happen again, not until i'm ready. (and don't get me wrong, my boyfriend loves kids he picks cute ones out all the time and says he wishes ours looked like that. He just knows I couldn't handle this) i'm not trying to justify anything, because I know its not only a sin, but its just wrong. Do I believe in willingly killing a baby? No. Its just this point you get at. Depressed at the thought, everyone around you is pressuring you, and you just break. You give up. What i'm telling you doesn't matter, I mainly want to say, that I aggree with everything you said.. Totally. And I hope you forgive my stupidity. Its just like, hearing those words from you offended me. And it wasn't you who offended me, it was myself. For once I actually thought "how could you have wanted that? Why would you give up so easy" I guess its really easy when you only have one person that loves you, and you don't want to lose them. Even though I know he wouldn't leave me, I just don't want to hurt him. I've talked too much, i'm gonna go now. See ya.

I was actually dreading your reply because I figured you'd be all, "you don't even know waht you're talking about." haha, well, I talked with him and I told him that if this ever happened again I was keeping it, and he said alright. Which makes me feel a lot better, knowing that he understands now. The only reason I was all "well this sucks" was because I figured I should just tell everyone the facts and not waste their time about my life story. :p

but thanks for your kind words, and I respect the fact that you didn't get angry with me. :)

p.S. Why does everyone keep voting on my pole, when they already know the answer? That's creepy.

I am so glad that things turned out the way you wanted and needed them too. I am sorry you were slammed and judged, they had no right as you were just asking a question, you had already made up your mind of what you were going to do and that should be that, that is why I am glad their is a choice.
I help young girls that do not even realize that their are choices, I do not tell them what to do and when to do it, that is their choice.
Now you can relax and breathe better.
I just wanted to let you know that we are all not here to slam and judge people and be rude about things.
Good luck to you and yours in the future!
It is not a baby until birth, of course, you can call it that but it is not the the truth, you can call it a turd if you want and their are times when abortion is o.K. Just like adoption and having and raising it, remember, it is your choice and each situation is different.

Thank you. :)

This may be off topic... Ladylegacy, omg I have to steal your timer idea lol!

It sure is a baby--at conception it is a baby.

The scientists and drs have found all these special words to call it --but it is a baby at conception. What, with osmosis--someday it just becomes a baby??

That is stupid just to admit. How could that make anyone feel smart. It is a baby from day one--you can keep lying to yourself, but god will hear your explaination someday.

Its funny how people keep telling me its a baby. I know that. I'm not the kind of person who calls it a tumor or something. Nor did I ever say it was, i've said it was a baby from the beginning. :p also, where was everyone when I needed the help? It seems like everyone decided to start saying these things after I found out I wasn't. No offense or anything, just saying that I get the picture.

And on the topic of baby's, you should see my boyfriend's niece. (i'll be the one babysitting her every day) heh. She's a doll.

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i was not speaking to you hun, I was refering to sandyellen statement

im glad everything came out ok for you

Ohhhhhh, okay. I was extremely confused. I probably should've paid more attention, then.

And thanks. :)