My boyfriend is pretty much as hairy as they come but I love it. I think chest and stomach hair is very manly. Hairy spots i'm not so fond of would be upper back, shoulders and down below. If you expect your signifcant to be neat and tidy then you should do the same. It's just courteous, y'know?
Unless you're a swimmer, there is no reason to shave your legs or arms.. It's just strange.
Yes I also think chest and tummy hair is manly and sexy, I would never want my man to shave it off, for other concerns about down stairs, if its not too irritate for you, or uncomfortble I would shave it, less issues I think, it can be a little hard to give oral while choking on hair, and im told it makes them look bigger when you shave, haha. And for shoulder hair and back hair, thats just gotta go I think, either plucking time or bust out the wax : )