Time.. Thats about it im afraid..And lots of ben & jerry's.

Get your friends to take you out and have fun! I'm not talking getting drunk, because that could just make any emotions you have about 20 times worse, but just enjoy being around your friends, enjoy being single, and just know that you're better off without that fool that dumped you hehe. It will get better, hun. Just give it chance :-)

No one can give you any advice, because no matter what anyone says you are still going to feel the pain of a broken heart until it mends. It is hard to think about it now but there is always someone for everyone. There will be another guy/girl that will make you feel as good or even better than you did before. I always want to write a thesis on this -- a broken relationship can make any sane person insane it is weird. When you have a break up generally it feels as though that person died or a part of you dies due to you guys being so close. I am so sorry for you loss but please remember there will be better days!

A lot of the above posts are true! In time, you will meet someone that will treat you better, you will always have memories of the x-boyfriend.
Take it from someone that has been there, the third marriage was not the charm but the fourth is great but I have no regrets, just more experience than others "it is a good life, charlie brown". Just remember, it is not your fault as guys like to twist and turn things around making it feel like it is your fault. So, it is time to let go and move on!