Not Really On Subject Here But Advice Could Be Used Posted: 07-25-05 09:20am
Thanks, but I decided to wait
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vanessalouanne
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Posted: 07-25-05 15:31pm
Your only 17 years old and you have a lot
of time to have a baby. Wait until you
two have your own place and a stable
income and dont have to worry about or
relay on his mom. What is so bad with
waiting to be married? Dont you want
this child to have the best life possible
and the biggest oppurtunity to suceed in
life. Trust me I know how bad you want a
baby but wait until the time is right and
you dont have to worry about problems like
these. Think of how much better it would
be to have your pregnancy be exciting and
everyone to approve. Now I know this
doesnt happen all the time but if you two
are already planning on getting married
then wait, be married awhile then ttc.
His mom wont have anything to say about it
then. Trust me the first year of
marriage is tough enough without a baby.
Give you and your boyfriend time to just
be with each other and enjoy being married
and spend all of your time in bed together
and enjoying each others company. You
can still be a young mom at 20,21,22,23
and so on. If he is having doubts about
it then it is probably not the right time.
Wait and let it be a happy experiance
for all involved. Wouldnt you rather
tell your son or daughter about how happy
you were when you were pregnant, not that
grandma kicked out your dad and wouldnt
talk to us for months?