My b/f and me have been dating for a good
while and he is already talking about us
moving together,getting married,and having
kids but mostly having kids dont get me
wrong I love kids I take care of my sis
kids all the time one is 2 and one is 7
months and I love them to death it just
that I dont think I am ready for a kids I
am also in skool and 13 and he wants a
kids and I shock!!
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Staylor
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jun 2005 Posts: 93
What!!!! Posted: 07-31-05 05:51am
How old is he? Girl you are way to young
for this you have your whole life ahead of
you and besides at thirteen your body isnt
fully ready for a baby. Plus how would
you guys get married it is illegal unless
your parents sign. Dont worry about it--
tell him that he is going too fast and you
would like to slow down and just have fun
right now. If he still wants to pressure
you maybe he is not the one for you.
Believe me!!! There are plenty of fish in
the sea and I know you dont believe me and
you like him and he is the fish that you
want but they keep getting better each
time I know from personal experience.
If you're not ready, you're not ready.
Simple as that. :]
don't even think about babies for a good
10 years. Kids are wonderful, but when
you have them, they become your life. You
still need alot of time to grow and have
many many experiences.
And don't let your boyfriend pressure you.
And, i'm not one to judge, but if he's
younger than 18, he doesn't really know
what he wants yet either. Just let time
pass.
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Think It Through
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jul 2005 Posts: 4 Location: Louisiana
I Think About It Posted: 08-02-05 18:30pm
I think about how he tells me that he
wants to move in with me and marry me and
have kids now he is wanting to have sex
with me and he is only 16 almost 17.I know
I sound crazy but I told him that I want a
furture and I want kids but not now kids
are money and I dont have that right now.
I even tell him that I first need to
finish skool.But now he gets mad at me but
I say if u dont respeast my body and what
I think then its over and he still calles
me and says he is srry but I now I think
about it and I need more help and he tries
to get me to go out to parties and I seem
that I dont trust him anymore so I need
more advise!!!
:(
Sweetie, if there's one thing that's
definite, it's that if he loves you like
he says he does, he will respect you and
your body. Now this is just me, but if
you deny him the sex, you'll see his true
colors. Don't let him touch you, and see
how he reacts. If he's worth it, he'll
wait for you. :] if he keeps asking and
begging... Well, that's a bad sign.
You want a boy who will respect you for
your personality and mind, not your body.
And he won't buy the cow if the milk is
free, you know?
And just for the record, telling a woman
he'll sweep her off her feet and carry her
to the tower and live happily ever after
with her is just what she wants to hear.
You want sex, whenever you have it, to be
totally free of doubt or guilt, because
you want it to be one of the best
experiences of your life. Don't settle
for anything less.
Of course you don't want kids!! Education
is the most important thing you should
have to worry about right now. Nothing
else!
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Think It Through
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jul 2005 Posts: 4 Location: Louisiana
Posted: 08-14-05 18:39pm
Well I told him that and all he says is
that he want to see me and then he gets
mad when he cant see me now I am even
scared if him and I always told myself
that I wont get like this but its
happening to me.Well he now is talking
about that he loves me and that he is
trying to be there for me but he drinks
alot and he smokes alot of ciggs and he
goes out every single night plus he works
I look at him and ask him how can u do
that.But now I need even more advice then
anything :cry: :(
Love shouldn't make you worried or scared.
Break up with the guy. If he bothers
you still, tell your parents.
There are better things out for you.
<3
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Think It Through
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jul 2005 Posts: 4 Location: Louisiana
Worried Posted: 11-23-05 18:39pm
My guy and me are still together.We still
dont get along cause he doesnt like my
family.He dont like them he says.Only time
he sees them is when he comes to get me.I
ask him to come over for holidays and he
says no.It hurts me that he doesnt want to
spend holidays with me and my family.I see
his family and I am ok with them time to
time.I dont anything about his family and
I see them when he vist them .What should
I do.I am worried.
Love megan :( :cry:
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LITTLE LISA
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Nov 2005 Posts: 30 Location: CROYDON, SURREY, UK
Re: What to Do? Posted: 11-24-05 04:55am
think it through
wrote:
my b/f and me have been
dating for a good while and he is already
talking about us moving together,getting
married,and having kids but mostly having
kids dont get me wrong I love kids I take
care of my sis kids all the time one is 2
and one is 7 months and I love them to
death it just that I dont think I am ready
for a kids I am also in skool and 13 and
he wants a kids and I
shock!!
bless !!!
When I was at school I use to say that all
the time I love you were going to get
married etc lol its what kids do...
As you are a teenager though have u been
told about birth control ? Alot of kids
are having kids these days
they confuss sex with love and thats why
this is happening !!!!!
