Just Found Out Your Best Friend Has Hpv... Posted: 07-23-05 18:24pm
Why dont you go to the website that you
found in your best friends computer? Im
sure you could do some research and find
the answer to your question of whether or
not her husband could have "carried" the
disease for years and gave it to her. It
is also entirely possible that he may have
only recently contracted the disease,
perhaps during an instance of infidelity,
and not only gave it to her, but is now
infected himself. Didnt you say he is out
of town for work? So that is most likely
something that happens often, correct?
Him having to go out of town? You said
you've known them both for a long time; is
he the monogamous type? As you mentioned,
he was once a bit of a "manwhore..." one
question that plagues me...Why should she
be worried that he will leave her when he
gets home and finds out? Shouldnt he be
the one who should worry about his spouse
leaving him? If she has been 100%
committed and faithful, then perhaps she
should be packing his things and putting
them by the curb right now, because I
highly doubt she got this "sexually
transmitted disease" from her vibrator!
On the other hand, if she has been
unfaithful herself and there is question
as to whether or not her husband is the
one who infected her and that is why she
is afraid he will leave her, then I wash
my hands of it, because that marriage was
doomed from the start!
Having said all that, I will finish by
saying that I think your idea to continue
to appear to be unaware of the situation
is your best bet. Up until this point,
your best friend has trusted you with the
darkest of secrets (and vice versa, im
sure), and so you should trust her
decision not to have told you. She
had/has her reasons and I feel confident
that when the time is right, she will
divulge her secret to you. Let her handle
the situation with her husband and if what
you both fear should happen, if he should
happen to leave her, then do what any best
friend would do: be there for her. I just
don't think it wise to ever let on that
you knew. (that can be your secret!)
good luck!
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Good Advise
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Apr 2005 Posts: 105
Common! Posted: 07-25-05 18:56pm
It's more common than people think.
You're a good friend and should stay shut.
It's between the husband and the wife.
Yep, the husband could've had it for
years. He could've even been born with
it. Who knows!
