Is it wierd that I cannot last nearly as
long getting oral than having sex? For
some reason I cant last longer tahn 30
seconds with oral, but can have sex for 10
minutes or more.
is it wierd that I cannot
last nearly as long getting oral than
having sex? For some reason I cant last
longer tahn 30 seconds with oral, but can
have sex for 10 minutes or more.
Is that
common?
how old are you (if you don't mind me
asking)?
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midwest diver
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Jul 2005 Posts: 2
Posted: 07-23-05 18:37pm
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theman
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jul 2005 Posts: 77 Location: South Wales, United Kingdom
Posted: 07-24-05 18:17pm
I think quite simply, it's a case of you
having less control over what's happening.
If you're having sex, most times you can
control the speed and other factors like
that. Whereas with oral sex, you really
don't, and in addition the visual
stimulation may be more. Don't forget too
that oral sex is different to normal sex
(obviously), so you can't expect the same
response to it. I think the best thing to
do is ask your partner to 'go slowly' or
something like that. That way you'll last
longer. I hope that helps!
