I know you don't want the people here to lecture you about having a baby.. But do you honestly think there just going to say "oh it's ok that your only 13 and want a baby" i'm sorry if you think that but your sadly mistaken.. I'm only 17 and i'm 16 weeks pregnant.. It's not easy.. The added stress on your body alone isn't good... Your body is still growing and maturing, and getting pregnant would just add to the stress.. What do you plan on doing to financially support your child?! And what about your boyfriend .. What does he have to say?! It seems you already have your mind made up..And no one can change that.. Or tell you that you can't have a baby yet.. I just hope you way all the consequences before continueing.. Your young yet..Live out your life and then go ahead and have a child...When you can financially support it.

If u came for support to tell ur parents u want to get pregnant.. Ur not at the right place. There are teens here who have kids, have been pregnant and we know how hard it is. Ur 13!!!!! U havent even finished puberty! U want a baby for the joys of it.. Sure it looks cute when u push em in the stroller and when u dress em up, but can u pay when they get sick? How bout the chicken pox? Trying to put your baby in daycare so u can try and finish school? How bout not going to prom, or a dance, becuz u cant find a sitter.. Or even to a friends party or a sleep-over cuz u cant have a sitter and ur sposed to be grown up after u have a baby so u wont be able to do those things anymore.. Sorry, but if u tell ur parents u want to have a baby, I hope they say the exact same things on here that we're saying.

Hey look I know im to young to have a baby....But I would find a baby sitter I have lots of family that would most probably help me through this.
If I moved to live with my dad his gf has a business and she looks after kids from 0-11 and you have to pay yes and it is cheap and it is gd and im sure she would help .....I no she wouldnt agree with me having a baby at 13 but trust me they would have to get over it. :!: :!:

oh and for the cost of the illnesses its completely free for under 16's

i could get a paper round so I could earn money....Not much wages but it would build up. :!: :!:

i hope to get support from my family and as for school I dnt no.
I would lose my friends I know and at the minute I dont have many because im not ni school and my x has takn them away from me!!!!
:!: :!:
i wouldn't mind not goin to partys and sleepovers and even if I was a one of im sure my mum would babysit!!

Thanks
ellie x

I know you don't want the people here to lecture you about having a baby.. But do you honestly think there just going to say "oh it's ok that your only 13 and want a baby" i'm sorry if you think that but your sadly mistaken.. I'm only 17 and i'm 16 weeks pregnant.. It's not easy.. The added stress on your body alone isn't good... Your body is still growing and maturing, and getting pregnant would just add to the stress.. What do you plan on doing to financially support your child?! And what about your boyfriend .. What does he have to say?! It seems you already have your mind made up..And no one can change that.. Or tell you that you can't have a baby yet.. I just hope you way all the consequences before continueing.. Your young yet..Live out your life and then go ahead and have a child...When you can financially support it.

If you can answer yes to *most* of these questions, then I wont lecture you.

Do you have a job?

Do you have a car?

Do you have a license to drive a car with?

Do you have your own house/apartment, etc?


Because if you plan on living with your mommy and daddy and having them pay for you to raise your child, then you have some major issues.

I had a baby at 18 and it was hard for me, I couldn't imagine purposely putting myself through that, at a mere 13 years old.

*shudders*

Sry bout my post repeating.. My computer had some malfunctional issues.. Kinda like me ..Lol

Heya I cant answer yes to any ov them but I wont rely on my parents!!
My parents have a car so I cud get around a little in tht but not as much as I wud be able to wivout a baby.

I wud give up everythink ov my own for my baby even my computer!!

Kk

I tried to warn you in my 1st post about how people would respond to your post.. And it's not that they are trying to be mean or anything.. They are just pointing out the obvious problems with having a child so young.. You say that you could get a paper route to pay for your child.. Do you honestly think that you'll make enough money to buy diapers, formula, clothes, pay for doctors visits.. If so thats one high paying paper route.. So what about a boyfriend?! Your pretty much saying you don't have one.. So your just going to go have unprotected sex with someone.. Just to get pregnant.. You could get more then just a pregnancy from that.. (std's) look.. Your young yet.. You've got your whole life ahead of you.. Sure baby's are cute and cuddley.. But they are expensive to.. They require alot of responsibilty..And at 13 thats not a responsibility you should have .. When I found out I was pregnant I was scared...And I know it's not going to be easy..It's going to be hard.. Hard enough at 17..Let alone at 13.. Just trust us.. We really do have your best interest at heart..
If you so feel the need to be responsible for something.. Get a pet.. Atleast then you still have your freedom..

Hiyaz I can undetstand wot ur sayn basically im to young.
I wouldn't just sleep around btw dis lad wants to have sex wiv me n I sed yh n he sed we wud use protection hes not ready to be a dad yet but im not boverd no more!!!

Yeah we are saying that your to young.. And were not trying to be mean about it.. But it's just..Most all of us know how hard pregnancy is.. Let alone raising a child.. It's just.. Enjoy being a kid.. Hang out with your friends.. Go to the mall and the movies.. Just enjoy you childhood while you still can..And when the time comes..And your financially ready to take the responsibilty then consider having a baby.. Basically just have fun in life being a kid.. Before being a mommy.

Hi agen....Well I know im to young and I will need help rainsing a baby I will be able to trust me.
I dont realy have a life at the moment I have a family thats been through a lot lately and my x hit me and everything and he coursed so much trouble. As goes for my m8z and school well...Im kickd out ov my old skool now lookn for a new one :? And my m8z have totally fallen out with me becus im not goin bk to the same skool as them and most ov them have been takn away from me by my x.

I fink I shud have a baby now if I dnt I will hve one wen im round 15 and then everythink in ma family life wil b bk on track den I will have to breakt the n ews to them tht im pregnant and then my family will fall apart agen.

Ok I dont care if u dont want me to lecture you.. Im going to anyways! Your being completley selfish. You are not thinking about the little baby that will be coming into this world, or thinking about the people who will be supporting her, because im sorry at 13 a fricken paper route would not support an infant! Also does the boy you will be having sex with know you want to get pregnant? Because if he doesnt then that is horrible. And if he dose then he is an fool! Well there is my lecture, now go to the play ground and play on a swing instead of in a bed with boys!

Whoooa that is totally selfish! And no u will not be able to get around in ur oarents car, hell u wont have a license for 3 more years! And to just have a baby with some guy who wants to have sex with u? U know how wrong that is?? Thats sad! That child will want to have a dad, see his dad.. That child will want a father role model. And dont just say ull find a boyfriend down the road. Its not the same. To have to tell ur child u had him when u were 13 cuz u were bored??? And ur family has been thru hell? Well why put em thru more hell by telling em u want a baby! I cant even believe how selfish ur being! And when u asnwered my questions, it all had to do with, ur parents paying for this and ur friends watching the baby, well hun, ill tell ya something! U'll have a lot of people offer to watch but when u have the baby and its take to ask them, u'll notice a lot of people arent willing! And sure, u say its free under 16, what happens when u turn 16 then huh? Suddenly u got bills.. U wont be able to go to college.. Nope! Cuz u prolly wouldnt have finished highschool being a single parent and all.. Ur kicked out of school? So how can u have a kid when u cant even make it thru school??
Sure u could get a babysitter.. But wheres the money to pay that baby-sitter? Ud have to get a job and that job alone would cover the food, diapers, cost for u and baby and living.. U wouldnt have any extra money to go out to a movie, go pay a sitter.. Nothing!

I have to agree with everyone here.. Theres no way in hell you could raise a baby at your age.. You think you have a right to mooch off your parents? If they wanted another baby around their house.. They would have their own.. A baby is not like a dog or a cat.. Its' alot harder.. And you don't have a right to ruin that boys life your screwing around with by getting pregnant on him.. That's just wrong. Let me tell you this.. Babies are very very selfish.. They don't care about your wellbeing.. They want what they want and when they want it.. How they want it and if they don't get it.. They will scream bloody homicide or at least cry all day long until they get what they want.. You think they care how tired mommy is or if mommy needs to do her homework?? Hell no!!! You've got the rest of your life to have a baby.. You're 13 yrs old.. Enjoy being a teen, make some friends if you dont' have any.. Go out and do what 13 yr olds do.. No need to tie yourself down now.. Trust me.. If you don't live now.. You'll regret it later down the road... I'm 18 and I wasted my teen years because i'm very shy in real life and was scared of people and just hid in my room after school.. I can't truly say i've ever really had fun.. Teenager type fun.. You don't want that for yourself. If you are that bored and want a child that bad.. Then babysit.. That way you can have something to do.. You'll know what it's like to take care of a baby and you'll make a few bucks too.

K sex>babies

Tell you what...I promise not to lecture you about having a kid...When you can learn to spell it's "what" not "wut".

How could you raise a kid if you can't even spell half decent.

I'm sorry to sound rude...But having a child at 13 is very selfish of you. I'm 17 and 7 weeks pregnant. And as much as I am going to love my baby and take care of it...I still regret making choices that I did...And I have a boyfriend who loves me and will be there for me, and is happy to have a kid. But it was also selfish of me to make a baby like this...Because I am unprepared, and I have a supportive mom who will help me finish school and help me take care of this kid...But that isn't fair to her either, she shouldn't have to bare my responsibility...Bringing a kid into the world when you don't have money put aside, or can't financially support one, isn't a good option.

Why make the same misstakes that we have made? Learn from us...Yes having a kid can bring joy to anyone...That's what babies do...But they also bring a lot of unwanted stress. Stess that is multiplied a cazillion times, especially if you are 13. If you like kids so much, babysit...Find a nice family in your community and babysit for them, you get all the joys of a kid, without the added burdens of money...Then in 5-7 years think again about having a kid. Enjoy life while you still have one to spend on yourself and not someone else.


Kimmie

Not to mention 13 is way to young to be having sex...You're still a baby yourself!

Wow. You honestly need to educate yourself before you ever bring a child into this world. I'd honestly be scared if you had a child.

You couldn't answer yes to any of my questions, therefor you don't need to be having a baby.


13 year old girls accidently getting pregnant is one thing, but to purposely bring a child into this world when you can't provide for it is selfish, you're already not giving your child the best, and you don't even have a child. You should want your child to have the best.

Ok, i'm not gonna repeat everything these other girls have said but I do agree with them. U are being completely selfish. But I will say this. How do u plan to support ur baby? Ur 13! U can't get a job for 3 more years. As for transportation, that's 3 years too! How are u supposed to feed and clothe this baby if u can't make any money. And don't say ur parent. That is .N.O.T their responsibility! Don't ruin ur life and that boy's life just because u wanna play mommy. Go get a doll. Or try baby sitting.... U should be having sex at ur age anyways....What is this world coming to ladies?