I guess i'm going through menopause. I haven't been to my doctor for this at all since I don't feel sick. In january of this year, I had my last period. I have severe mood swings (for me) although, to be honest, very few of those mood swings are "up". I'm tired a lot and have put on an extra 10 pounds in the past year and a half (but I was really thin, and apparently I needed the extra according to hubby). I have absolutely no desire to have sex anymore, so I "fake it", even though prior to this, I was frequently "in the mood". Do I have to see a doctor? Is there something i'm supposed to do about this? I'm 45 and started having my period at 13. Please help. I haven't been married long and i'm afraid this will take a toll on my patient husband. :cry: