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Q: Need Some Advice!!
asked by: ~baby~g~ on July 16th, 2005
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Hey everyone!! I just need to ask a few ?'s & get some things off my mind! First of all i've known this guy for going on 5 years now & we dated for about 3 years on & off. It's been about a year or so since we've tried dating o anything. Well since then I met the love of my life & we've been together for 6 months now but things are starting to go down hill it seems like. We argue all the time, like tonight we got into a argument because all's I wanted was to talk to him for a little bit & he got upset when I told him I would just call him tomorrow because he had to go, like always. I mean I seriously do love him with all my heart & he always tells me that i'm the girl of his dreams & he's going to marry me someday...But why do I always get so upset with him?? It only takes something small for me to get upset...& now that I may be pregnant, not for sure, things don't seem the same either! I told him earlier that I feel like i'm all alone during this & he got upset with me & was like you know how much you hurt my feelings just now...But what he doesn't understand is that i'm going throught a lot myself to!! I can tell this is true love though because all he has to do is smile or tell me he loves me & my heart melts. Sometimes also when I tell him something he asks me why..And he will keep asking me why until I get mad & then he wonders why i'm frustrated lol..Seriously could someone give me a little advice because i'm starting to not even want to talk to him that much or anything & it's breaking my heart!! He treats me soo well..But things are starting to get to me. Thanks!!

Oh & also as for the other guy we still talk sometimes but when my bf & I start arguing he always pops into my mind & I realize how much I miss him & how much I wish he was back in my life. Does this mean something?? Or will he always be there because he was my first love??
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replied on August 24th, 2005
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Re: Need Some Advice!!
~baby~g~ wrote:
hey everyone!! I just need to ask a few ?'s & get some things off my mind! First of all i've known this guy for going on 5 years now & we dated for about 3 years on & off. It's been about a year or so since we've tried dating o anything. Well since then I met the love of my life & we've been together for 6 months now but things are starting to go down hill it seems like. We argue all the time, like tonight we got into a argument because all's I wanted was to talk to him for a little bit & he got upset when I told him I would just call him tomorrow because he had to go, like always. I mean I seriously do love him with all my heart & he always tells me that i'm the girl of his dreams & he's going to marry me someday...But why do I always get so upset with him?? It only takes something small for me to get upset...& now that I may be pregnant, not for sure, things don't seem the same either! I told him earlier that I feel like i'm all alone during this & he got upset with me & was like you know how much you hurt my feelings just now...But what he doesn't understand is that i'm going throught a lot myself to!! I can tell this is true love though because all he has to do is smile or tell me he loves me & my heart melts. Sometimes also when I tell him something he asks me why..And he will keep asking me why until I get mad & then he wonders why i'm frustrated lol..Seriously could someone give me a little advice because i'm starting to not even want to talk to him that much or anything & it's breaking my heart!! He treats me soo well..But things are starting to get to me. Thanks!!


Oh & also as for the other guy we still talk sometimes but when my bf & I start arguing he always pops into my mind & I realize how much I miss him & how much I wish he was back in my life. Does this mean something?? Or will he always be there because he was my first love??


well on the last bit you answerd your own ? He will always be there because he was ur first love. And as for your b/f now the on you love, it's like trial and tribulations. It's a test of fate to see if you 2 can handle things together plus on top of it if your prego then it's just a hormone thing.
Your hormones get so out of wack u can get frustrated at him looking at you the wrong way. So just relax and breath....The reason your ex pops up is because ur mad at your current b/f and u want some one to comfort u and you remember how it felt to have him comfort you. It's natural. It's more less just memories flashing. Well good luck and just relax.
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