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Q: 3 Years of Pain Help Me Please!!!!!!!!!!

asked by: One Tree Hill on July 14th, 2005

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I love this girl. The most beautiful girl in the world. I have secretly loved her for 3 years. I have managed to keep it secret, but its getting harder. I sometimes cycle very far just so I pass her house to maybe get a chance to catch a glimpse of her. It has been so hard this year though. My love for her has tripled and I have painfully watched her going out with her boyfriend and kissing him and stuff. She recently dumped him and thats when I thought there might be a chance. But she quickly got another boyfriend before I gathered the guts to ask her out. She has been going out with him for 3 weeks now. And my heart is broken into more than 50,000,000 pieces. Everyday I think about her. Please someone give me advice on what to do.

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snownix

replied on July 14th, 2005

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To me, there seems to be like no possible way for you to wait, since you're already cycling so far just to see her house... 3 years is a long long time to keep it hidden, and I think that this quick boyfriend wouldn't mean as much to her as you. I think you should still go for it, despite that she's already in a relationship, it seems like you need the answer to keep your sanity. And if she doesn't like you, it'll be hard, but atleast you have her answer and can try moving on with your life, there are always more fish in the sea! It's a win win situation, just go for it!

One Tree Hill

replied on July 14th, 2005

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Cheers

Thanks m8. Ya see, @ 13, in secondary school. Word can be spread. And it wont die down for atleast a month is she refuses me. I would be really prowd if she sed yes though. I wouldnt care if the people pestered me. But if its a no (most likely) my friendship with her (quite a good one) would be shatterd.

Thanks for replyin to the topic so fast
matt

lilmammi

replied on August 24th, 2005

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Re: Cheers

mtih1992 wrote:

thanks m8. Ya see, @ 13, in secondary school. Word can be spread. And it wont die down for atleast a month is she refuses me. I would be really prowd if she sed yes though. I wouldnt care if the people pestered me. But if its a no (most likely) my friendship with her (quite a good one) would be shatterd.

Thanks for replyin to the topic so fast
matt

well the best thing you can do is tell her how you feel in a private setting.
It may not turn out to be so bad,somtimes females dont pay attention too closely to who is right in front of them until they are showed. Take a chance. Tell her how u feel instead of a forum.

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