I say that you should just let him take over. Ask him if he could show you a few things. That was to much to let us peeps know but more power to you. Just watch all that cum you could get sick. To me thats just nasty in the butt. But hey I wouldn't knocked it. Do you. Just know what you want from him. Just keep it real.

Sounds like yr guy is all about himself. When ya say big what does that mean? Big for some is 6 while big for others is 8. As far as him doing whatever he wants to that is yr choice. But I would make sure he understands yr needs too. Whn the grl is on top riding the dude she has more control as to how much she can take. Try to get yr dude to let you control until yr comfortable taking all of him. As far as anal sex make sure you are redy for it and make sure you lubricate yrslf good. Also dont let your guy go fm anal to frontend without washing himself first. Guys like bjs and they like cumming in the mouth. It is just the way most of us are. Its a guy thing to feel ourselves going off in a mouth. Hope this helps somewhat.

Talk to him about the whole thing, and tell him that he has to be understanding. If he is too pushy, than you need to leave him.

Ok, first of all, you seem timid about sex which is somthing that you should feel comfortable enough to discuss with your partner openly. You should be able to ask him what he likes and doesn't like but in return, you have to be able to tell him what you like and don't like. Anal sex seems to be somthing that is a hit or miss, no pun intended. Either you like, or at least can stand it, or you hate it. (i fit into that category) let him know, don't be talked into things that you don't feel comfortable doing. As for oral sex, cumming in the mouth has nothing to do with self respect!! It has to do with what you enjoy and what feels good. If you don't like him to cum in your mouth, then you have to be strong enough to tell him that, trust me, a guy will get off either way, I don't think they care that much where they cum. Offer up some place else like on your breast or somthing like that. I hope this has helped a bit, basically I think youshould be more open and honest with yourself and with your b/f.

Firstly there is not room in sex to be pissed off.
Who the hell is he?
- he needs an attitude check and you need to find somone who respects you and wont make you feel bad.
As far as finding out how to do things, check the net, books..But really, riding is either grinding your pelvis or going up and down. This you just do with your body. It'll take some time getting use to it since it's not a natural movement for your body.

Hey!!! I feel sorry for u. Talk to him n try to solve the prob by negotiating, if it doesn't work then I think u should leave him...

I just read your post and while it may be a bit late I am going to write it anyway. Take control let him know whos boss if he wants you to grind and he dont like the way you do it. Tell him to shut up as its what he wanted and if he explained stuff to you a bit more it might be a bit more pleasureable for the both of ya.

As for getting angry wot an ass. He obviously doesnt really care about you or he would care how this sort of treatment makes you feel. It also sounds like because of the way he is treating you and making you upset he kinda gets off on this submissive stuff whether you realise it or not.

And lastly if you dont want to go down on him then dont, we all know it dont have the greatest taste but if you are doing it to make him happy you shouldnt be doing it and if he is cumming in your mouth and u dont want him to when you think he is about to finish or is close take him out of your mouth and finish him by hand if he trys to put himself back in your mouth you can do one of two things.

(a) just pull away and leave him hanging or
(b) many years ago I was seeing this guy who was not good for me but thats another story anyway his then girlfriend didnt want him to come in her mouth but he did this one day and she took it and didnt let him know that she 'hadnt disposed of it' and then she kissed him and spat it into his mouth. All he could do was swallow his own semen.

While this story may seem gross and all the guys out there are going he had choices well let me tell you so do you, I betcha he wont like it so y should you put up with it.

Let me know how you go

from someone who cant wait to have a jelly bean all of their own

The whole on top thing is pretty fun in my opinion. I always thought that I would be bad at it at first but once you start doing you get better and more confident do different things ask him if he likes it as far as the whole blow job thing in my opinion its sometimes better to give then recieve unless your not receivig at all then you tell him to go scratch if you have body issues its obvious he dosnt care if your too fat too skinny to flaby because he wouldnt be with you if he did anal sex is something you have to be comfortable with I tell my boyfriend that when he marries me then he can stick it in because then my ass will belong to him until then its mine communiction is good tell him what your feeling tell him what you want and ask him what he wants try different things youll be surprised you might like most of them but..... If he cant respect your choices and he cant respect your feelings and needs then givethis dude the boot and tell him to go pound sand

Hey,,maybe I am to late and you figured it out for yourself. Your guy sounds like someone who doesn't care for you,,should be considerate of your feelings, and you sound like you have a lack in self confidence.
Be proud of your body,and who you are,,don't let this guy with a big penis dicate you sex life. He probably thinks you should be lucky and worshiping him because he has a big one. Wrong,,,,while size matters, size is not everything. I should know,,i also have a huge one but would never impose it on my girlfriend or demand anything of her that she wasn't willng to do. And no< no< I wouldn't abuse her butt ,,the p<<

get nother guy.

If u like 2 eat cum than do it, if u can stay longer bj than do it,
this is a tip 4 u.....
1.Always bj him everytime he need sex and never let him ride u
2.Shows ur unhappy woman mood every time he finished cause u didnt
as a man they need woman 2 ride, he will miss u then , but if he still dont change.........Just leave him.

What? Give him a bj every time he wants sex! He is a jerk, he doesn't deserve it! And she said she didin't like the cum thing.

First of all I think this is just some guy fooling around, but if you want my advice.

If, you want to please him that's simple - do everything he says.

But, your dude sounds like he's just in it to hit it - if I were you i'd find someone who has the same idea about sex as you do.

Your boyfriend sounds like an problem to me u shouldnt have to put up with that dump hos ass and find someone more on ur level

problem. Dump him.

Alternatively you could use a gag and tie him up.