I can't give u an answer but I will tell you that you aren't alone in your problem! My boyfriend is big too and I used to think I could barely "handle" him but now it's...Um well...Things have loosened up. I did hear though something on a show that had dr drew on it and there is a surgery that basically re-virginizes you all over again.

That would be painful, since it would involve stitching up the length of the vagina to make it tighter. Also, it makes me twitchy because it sounds a lot like some of the procedures used in female circumscision.

Your body gets use to his penis.....If you ever had kids your vagina is not the same as when you gave birth.... Take a nice hot bath and soak in some hot water.... And if your vagina gets to wet while having intercourse you wont feel it.... And dont take all them blame your boyfriends penis may be loosing his erection while having intercourse..... Try that

Well, I know a lot of the times if I can't feel my man it's b/c i'm too lose or b/c he's "softened" a little bit. I was told to work my kegal muscles to help tighten things up, not too mention if you use them while having sex it increases pleasure on both sides.

Yes I am the same way...even before I got pregnant.
Lovemad is right, your body DOES get used to the size of his penis. I'm having the same issue, and my husband is big.

i have the same problem but lately my boyfriend knows it and is saying he cant feel me either and is getting upset over it and i dont want this end or relationship because i think its stupid and i love him so much but i dont know what to do i feel like if i cant satisfy him he would want to leave...

He shouldn't be getting upset with you over this. It's not like you are loosening up on purpose. If this is something you guys can't work around and would consider ending the relationship over, that's not good. Sex is important to a relationship, but that doesn't mean things should end because the couple has some difficulty. This is something you should work out together. If you are close enough to have sex, you should be close enough to talk about it. It's not something you should be embarrassed about.

Maybe you're both having more trouble feeling things because you've been over-doing it. Try being more gentle for a few weeks to get some sensitivity back. He can also try wearing "her pleasure" condoms to stimulate you more. You could even go without sex for longer than usual to see if things tighten up and also to re-charge your desire (and your sensitivity along with it). There are also warming and tingling lubricants you can try.

If none of that works, maybe find other ways to satisfy each other--if you know what I mean.

my man thinks i cheated on him because i was loose 3wks ago. i have no explaination but i know i didn't cheat. what could it be?

It is simply that if you have had the same partner for a long time your vagina does get used to the size it kind of moulds it if you like....there really is nothing you can do to be honest apart from the kegals..jenny